Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask.
What do you women want?
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
The list I've been though goes on, I understand not all women are this way but some are. And since women should have an idea what they want, maybe you could speak on behalf of a few other ladies.
Please don't take this personally and please don't judge me for asking such a question, it just seems like I do the wrong thing alot.
Discuss. (:
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[]Not sure what you are really asking. Do you really want help in understanding us or is it that you don't really like us very much.
You need to accept women as wee are and once you find acceptance us you will find love and sexual ecstasy that you never dreamed could exist.
We have to do the same thing with you guys and I am not going to make a list either. I promise you men are not flaw free from a womans prospective.
Of course, I am only a woman, what could I possible know!.
You need to accept women as wee are and once you find acceptance us you will find love and sexual ecstasy that you never dreamed could exist.
We have to do the same thing with you guys and I am not going to make a list either. I promise you men are not flaw free from a womans prospective.
Of course, I am only a woman, what could I possible know!.
well in fact women can be a guessing game. we want what we want when we want it and its not always the same things each time.
but you made sweeping generalizations too..
first off if you are being your true self and you are not the right person for a woman then its probably cuz ur not the right person
if you are behaving opposite of who you are then you are an idiot
when we cry and you are trying to help maybe you are getting yelled at because what we really want is for you to listen
really i dont think women just yell for no reason..maybe you just cant see what the problem is or maybe shes just a bitch
when you bring 2 dozen roses to the first date or only before shit hits the fan you ARE sucking up....any other gift giving is usually tolerated pretty well.
if you never bring some sort of trinket to show you were thinking about her then maybe you dont
really what we want is a man who is secure in themselves, who is polite and thoughtful and considerate. a man who is confident enough to let us be ourselves..a man who is all grown up, who is not in need of his mother and has developed not only his hearing but his listening skills. a man who understands himself and therefore will be able to understand us better.
oh...and we want the sun and the stars and the moon too if you please ;-)
but you made sweeping generalizations too..
first off if you are being your true self and you are not the right person for a woman then its probably cuz ur not the right person
if you are behaving opposite of who you are then you are an idiot
when we cry and you are trying to help maybe you are getting yelled at because what we really want is for you to listen
really i dont think women just yell for no reason..maybe you just cant see what the problem is or maybe shes just a bitch
when you bring 2 dozen roses to the first date or only before shit hits the fan you ARE sucking up....any other gift giving is usually tolerated pretty well.
if you never bring some sort of trinket to show you were thinking about her then maybe you dont
really what we want is a man who is secure in themselves, who is polite and thoughtful and considerate. a man who is confident enough to let us be ourselves..a man who is all grown up, who is not in need of his mother and has developed not only his hearing but his listening skills. a man who understands himself and therefore will be able to understand us better.
oh...and we want the sun and the stars and the moon too if you please ;-)
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oh...and we want the sun and the stars and the moon too if you please ;-)
Note: to be properly served on a silver platter with a mimosa and a rosebud
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Okay, I'll play. 
Everything, but each woman's "everything" is different, and it's about material things less than you probably suspect.
Only if your character flaws make you hard to like.
Right, because usually your act is transparent, and it's insulting to our intelligence that you would try to pull of being something you're not.
We just want to be listened to sometimes. Unfortunately, many men go straight to criticism of our actions and working toward a solution, running roughshod over our emotions and concerns. Listen more, get yelled at less.
Don't kid yourself. There's a reason. It may not be a good one, but there's *always* a reason.
Depends on the context. If you fucked up and then buy a gift, then yes, you're sucking up. If you're never generous with gifts or attention, then yes, obviously you don't care.
The point is: you're frustrated, you're venting, and you're generalizing egregiously. In context, all of your complaints paint a picture of a certain relationship. But out of context, it's really hard to say anything meaningful. But, I've done my best so far. :)
What do you women want?
Everything, but each woman's "everything" is different, and it's about material things less than you probably suspect.
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
Only if your character flaws make you hard to like.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
Right, because usually your act is transparent, and it's insulting to our intelligence that you would try to pull of being something you're not.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
We just want to be listened to sometimes. Unfortunately, many men go straight to criticism of our actions and working toward a solution, running roughshod over our emotions and concerns. Listen more, get yelled at less.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
Don't kid yourself. There's a reason. It may not be a good one, but there's *always* a reason.
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
Depends on the context. If you fucked up and then buy a gift, then yes, you're sucking up. If you're never generous with gifts or attention, then yes, obviously you don't care.
The point is: you're frustrated, you're venting, and you're generalizing egregiously. In context, all of your complaints paint a picture of a certain relationship. But out of context, it's really hard to say anything meaningful. But, I've done my best so far. :)
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Okay, I'll play.
What do you women want?
Everything, but each woman's "everything" is different, and it's about material things less than you probably suspect.
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
Only if your character flaws make you hard to like.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
Right, because usually your act is transparent, and it's insulting to our intelligence that you would try to pull of being something you're not.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
We just want to be listened to sometimes. Unfortunately, many men go straight to criticism of our actions and working toward a solution, running roughshod over our emotions and concerns. Listen more, get yelled at less.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
Don't kid yourself. There's a reason. It may not be a good one, but there's *always* a reason.
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
Depends on the context. If you fucked up and then buy a gift, then yes, you're sucking up. If you're never generous with gifts or attention, then yes, obviously you don't care.
The point is: you're frustrated, you're venting, and you're generalizing egregiously. In context, all of your complaints paint a picture of a certain relationship. But out of context, it's really hard to say anything meaningful. But, I've done my best so far. :)
But how will you know what to do and how to live your life if a man doesn't tell you? Gosh, LX I thought you knew better than this. But it all makes sense now. All those posts in the Think Tank that we disagree on, that's when you were thinking for yourself! tsk tsk
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Lets turn this a little.
When we act like ourself, we're being bitches
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we are playing head games
When we cry, we are being too senistive
When you yell at us , we deserve it.
When you buy use gifts, we're high maintenance.
If we want to go out instead of staying home watching TV, we are selfish.
And You Wonder Why I Have A Girlfriend. LOL!!
When we act like ourself, we're being bitches
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we are playing head games
When we cry, we are being too senistive
When you yell at us , we deserve it.
When you buy use gifts, we're high maintenance.
If we want to go out instead of staying home watching TV, we are selfish.
And You Wonder Why I Have A Girlfriend. LOL!!
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Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask
Please don't take this personally and please don't judge me for asking such a question, it just seems like I do the wrong thing alot.
No, I don't take this personally, but please...in the future, speak for yourself and don't try to cloak your own insecurities by including your beta personality with the rest of us men, because no, you do not speak for us all.
Maybe by the time you're 21 or 22, you'll have figured this age old mystery out.
Men are from Earth and women are too. Deal with it. (tyvm George Carlin)
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harsh. 
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harsh.
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Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask.
What do you women want?
Discuss. (:
It'd be easier if you tried to stop worrying so much about what women want and focus more on what you want. You'll find a woman who suits the real you that way rather than having to mould yourself to fit someone else's view of perfection.
As long as you're a kind, decent person who treats everyone well you'll come across as genuine. If you reserve your good behaviour just for women you find attractive (not saying you do this, but there are men who do) you'll come across as insincere and look like you're only being nice to get what you want.
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Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask.
What do you women want?
For me i want to feel safe and secure with my partners. I also want to have some fun by doing what a guy or girl wants, but also myself.
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
When i see a guy i dont judge him for his looks or job. Personality and if they are good humored and fun to be around.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
Its obvious when guys that try to be something they are not. Some women like that type. I just see a jerk.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
I dont do this personally, but lashing out at people that are trying to help and console you are good signs.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
The only time i yell its for a reason like HARDER, FASTER. saying OMG and YES!
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
Why does it have to be sucking up? Its sort of a sign of affection that you appreciate or care.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
Never had any thought of getting a gift in the first place.
The list I've been though goes on, I understand not all women are this way but some are. And since women should have an idea what they want, maybe you could speak on behalf of a few other ladies.
I think you have dealt with some drama queens or ladies with mental issues, no offense.
Please don't take this personally and please don't judge me for asking such a question, it just seems like I do the wrong thing alot.
Its understandable to want to understand the opposite sex. Took me along time to figure out men and women, and im still learning.
Discuss. (:
From some of the replies I've read, I feel like a little judgement have been passed.
Yes, I've just come out of a very confusing relationship with a girl who just acted crazy. Okay, I may have made a few wrong statements, but I'm just saying what I feel.
And for the record, if you actually knew me, you'd find I'm actually pretty sensitive.
Sorry for offense caused by my topic.
Yes, I've just come out of a very confusing relationship with a girl who just acted crazy. Okay, I may have made a few wrong statements, but I'm just saying what I feel.
And for the record, if you actually knew me, you'd find I'm actually pretty sensitive.
Sorry for offense caused by my topic.
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From some of the replies I've read, I feel like a little judgement have been passed.
Yes, I've just come out of a very confusing relationship with a girl who just acted crazy. Okay, I may have made a few wrong statements, but I'm just saying what I feel.
And for the record, if you actually knew me, you'd find I'm actually pretty sensitive.
Sorry for offense caused by my topic.
I don't think that you caused actual offense, but your original post could have been better worded. If you'd explained, like you just have, I think people would have have been more understanding...
I think what Lisa said, about just being yourself is the best advice... and LMB is right, this is a good place to learn...
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Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask.
What do you women want?
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
The list I've been though goes on, I understand not all women are this way but some are. And since women should have an idea what they want, maybe you could speak on behalf of a few other ladies.
Please don't take this personally and please don't judge me for asking such a question, it just seems like I do the wrong thing alot.
Discuss. (:
You are obviously dating the wrong women. If it is one women, back away slowly, when you have a safe distance between you and her, turn, and run like the wind!
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Okay, so I know most women would take one glance at this question and roll their eyes; But, if you can give us men a few tips, I'm sure I speak for us all, when I ask.
What do you women want?
When we act like our self, we're not the right person.
When we act the opposite of what we normally are, we're idiots.
When you cry, we try to help, you yell at us instead.
When you yell at us other times, it's for no reason.
When we buy you gifts, we're sucking up.
When we don't buy you gifts, we don't care.
The list I've been though goes on, I understand not all women are this way but some are. And since women should have an idea what they want, maybe you could speak on behalf of a few other ladies.
Please don't take this personally and please don't judge me for asking such a question, it just seems like I do the wrong thing alot.
Discuss. (:
You are obviously dating the wrong women. If it is one women, back away slowly, when you have a safe distance between you and her, turn, and run like the wind!
BEST reply I've had here.
