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Have to ask, as an older but largely clueless male... What kind of man's online profile appeals to you? Please consider that I am kinky and have no interest in vanilla sex, but enjoy plenty of vanilla activities. I am dominant but try to not come across as an "obey me, slut" type in my profile at another site.

What do you like to see in a man's profile?

What turns you off (aside from cock photos)?

If you want to apply General interests, that is welcome. I know my kinky orientation adds a bit of a twist to this question.
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Have to ask, as an older but largely clueless male... What kind of man's online profile appeals to you? Please consider that I am kinky and have no interest in vanilla sex, but enjoy plenty of vanilla activities. I am dominant but try to not come across as an "obey me, slut" type in my profile at another site.

What do you like to see in a man's profile?

What turns you off (aside from cock photos)?

If you want to apply General interests, that is welcome. I know my kinky orientation adds a bit of a twist to this question.


You know - I'm not looking for a relationship because I'm married. But I like having friends around here. Anyone who looks like they have a brain. That's a plus. LOL

But more so - I'm an author and just find that if someone doesn't - ever - read stories . . . then odds are we won't have anything to talk about. So those who only cruise the forums and profiles and make comments on pictures and walls tend not to interest me.
I prefer a profile that is completed. I dislike when someone messages me and only has the bare minimum on their profile. I feel it's the least you could do and tell someone a little about yourself. Likes, dislikes, wants and desires. It's your profile so as long as it reflects who you are I'm sure the people of lush would be pleased. ;)
Sensual and honest. Showing interests and showing an enjoyment in life.
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I prefer a profile that is completed. I dislike when someone messages me and only has the bare minimum on their profile. I feel it's the least you could do and tell someone a little about yourself. Likes, dislikes, wants and desires. It's your profile so as long as it reflects who you are I'm sure the people of lush would be pleased. ;)


Yeah this is a good way to put it. I date guys in real life so here I'm mainly looking to chat, flirt, have fun and read great stories that get me horny for my dates. Plus maybe you get new ideas about sex and new stuff to try and things. IDK. Yup like that.
Something honest is a thousand times better than anything else.
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Have to ask, as an older but largely clueless male... What kind of man's online profile appeals to you? Please consider that I am kinky and have no interest in vanilla sex, but enjoy plenty of vanilla activities. I am dominant but try to not come across as an "obey me, slut" type in my profile at another site.

What do you like to see in a man's profile?

I think what u wrote as intro to this thread is excellent and a lot better than a lot of men write. Since I am only going to chat with u, never cyber, I also like a hint as to what makes u laugh... since I will be teasing u asap .. giggles
For me, pics of genitalia r useless .. I wouldn't know what is better from one profile to another.
Maybe some indication as to yr passion??.. if it's a sport why not say so. Lots of ladies on Lush support NFL or baseball teams I've noticed... often more passionately than the guys.
I love to read a well put together profile before approaching a man on Lush. What always gets me are clever quotes, also I love point form lists but that's probably the geek in me. There is no one thing, it's more if our interests line up and we have a lot in common!