what would you do if you seen a friend online.
I'd let him or her know just as a heads up just in case they didn't know, followed by a complement. Of course that leaves you open to the question of why and how you found it.
Might take your friendship to a whole new level!
I'd change my avatar to a cartoon or something. We all have our sexual vices and forum postings, I'd like to remain anonymous rather than reveal those things to someone I know personally. I'm open minded and would never mention anything that anyone else posts or writes in their profile, but I can't say the same for other people I know.
I don't have much to risk being discovered here by someone I know in real life, so anonymity is not a big issue for me. I can't be fired because I run the company! And most who know me already know about my sexual proclivities. Even my family has known since I was 26, when my sister 'outed' me, so... nothing left to lose!
It would depend on which type of friend it was. We have who we call 'normal' friends. Then we have who we call 'lifestyle' friends. :-)
I ran across one of my own employees looking at my blog where I put all my stories, that shocked me to the point where I changed my username on the site and everything.
If I met anyone else I knew... I would run a mile. I have too much to lose and a connection with an erotic site would just kill me professionally!!
Coward I know.