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When you're first eyeballing a man...

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What are three of his features -or- the characteristics/qualities you pay attention to?

His nails...hairstyle...how he walks, where his eyes focus...how attentive he seems to be...does he show any humor? And if there's only one thing that you zone in on -or- more than three...do tell.
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I really focus on teeth for some reason; good dental hygiene is important to me.

Then he HAS to have a sense of humor, if a guy can make me laugh he can make me do anything.

Another biggie would be his eyes, you can see a persons soul right through his/her eyes.
First thing i notice is normally his/her smile. everyone compliments me on mine and its become something i just really pay attention to. another thing is deffinantly sence of humor. they HAVE to have a sence of humor. i can't stand it when people are ALWAYS so serious! makes me want to carve a smile on their face! and lastly probably hair.
height...then humour...then finger size lol
I notice his smile first, especially if it's a bit of a cheeky one. Also, his eyes and his voice.
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height...then humour...then finger size lol


lmfao lois i have to agree with you on the last one there!
I dont eyeball a man until something about his personality forces me to do so. Everything falls into place from there. He has to be genuine.
His eyes, his humor and his intelligence (which I think are all conected). I'm a sucker for sweet smart guys.
I fall for a guy who has beautiful eyes, comports himself with a royal air, and has an intriguing sense of humor.
I dont go by just looks. I fall for a guy because of his personality and then his smile, and his eyes.
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Appearance (generally) and stature will catch my eye, followed by the eyes, a piercing set of eyes will make me weak in the knees. Confidence, manners, and the ability to think on his feet are key, and humor is a giant plus.
His posture. I notice people who have good posture and carry themselves with an air of confidence. Then his smile.

Right there. Oh yeah baby. Right there.
if it's a group thing i sit back and listen for a while, taking note of his personality, his character traits, then if i'm interested enough...i notice the eyes and smile
Hair, eyes, smile and definitely the sound of his voice. His walk is quite important too, I like guys who walk dorky and kind of funny.
Smile while laughing.
Eyes.
Bum(I love a good bum in jeans)
Shoes.
Personality.
Eyes
Hair
And if he is confidant enough to stand close enough to me that I can smell him.
Sorry can't define what I look for in a man or a woman for that matter, but I sure know it when I see it. There are some studies say it is our natural scent that attracts, and we have little control. Could that be the reason of that couple and I or no bother.
1. Confidence is very sexy - a man may not be traditionally handsome, but has that ~ confident energy ~ makes you want to know really what he has (to offer .... lol)
2. Sincerity / is Genuine
3. Kind eyes

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oh the list could vary from man to man ... but I think those 3 top at least the top 5!

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Eyes, dress sense, physique .... and when we go a bit further, speech and confidence. I usually have to wait till later to find what he's got between his legs ... and hope it's not a disappointment.
I'm all about the eyes (a sense of mystery or mischievousness always draws me in... instantly! If you watch George Clooney in interviews... he is a master of this, and that's what makes him so incredibly sexy).

Next would be voice (tone, depth, sense of intelligence etc).

Third... the body. Broad shoulders and height. Yummm.
Hair.
Lips (teeth)
eyes.
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Sorry can't define what I look for in a man or a woman for that matter, but I sure know it when I see it. There are some studies say it is our natural scent that attracts, and we have little control. Could that be the reason of that couple and I or no bother.


you could deffo have a strong point there. I met my now ex Husband on a blind date, He didn't do that much for me but we chatted all night, and once i dated him a few more times, I couldn't get enough of his own smell salty and sweet. We was a couple for 15 yrs it must have had something to do with it maybe!
Thinking about it some more and I think 'conversation' with another male or female is so damn sexy, someone who gets you, a person who gets excited at the same stuff you do can be a very real horny turn on. Oops I have just realised something...
I also like guys who have tattoos...a bit of a bad boy ...yummm
I have to admit if he has a good sense of humor, a great smile and eyes.. then I start noticing the arms.. I'm big on arms for some reason...
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I have to admit if he has a good sense of humor, a great smile and eyes.. then I start noticing the arms.. I'm big on arms for some reason...


Because that the best part when he cuddles you at night, and well, I kiss his arms as I'm falling asleep ahhhhhh nice hee hee
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I really focus on teeth for some reason; good dental hygiene is important to me.

Then he HAS to have a sense of humor, if a guy can make me laugh he can make me do anything.

Another biggie would be his eyes, you can see a persons soul right through his/her eyes.


I swear we are somehow connected. I do these EXACT three things!
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height...then humour...then finger size lol


lmfao lois i have to agree with you on the last one there!
My friend laughs at the finger size thing. But I have had the misfortune of being with a very tall man with very small fingers, only to find out the myth of small fingers was not a myth. He had the tiniest tool I have ever barely seen.

I'm am also noticing if he smiles, and has some manners.