who initiates the sex more in your relationship ?

12 Jan 2014

I thought this topic might be a little fun to post and there is a lot of questions regarding how many times a day we all masturbate. I am just sayin... seems we all do it like 5-10 times a day so we are obviously not getting it enough from our partners smile

Lol!!! please feel free to add any questions to this thread in general. I just kind of threw this together and think it could have a lot more questions added to it through out the replies people post. So add to it and post away or just read the posts.

Who initiates the sex more in your relationship, you or your partner?

If it is always you, do you wish your partner would initiate it more often?

How, would you like your partner to initiate sex more often?

I am the one in my relationship that is more frequent to initiate sex with my woman. that is probably obvious from the questions I have asked.
Yes, I wish my girlfriend would initiate sex more. it seems as we have two totally different sex drives, which leads to frustration, which leads to a lot of masturbation:)
Last but not least, I would find it hot if my gal would slut it up a little bit and wear some sexy skirts and flash me now and again on purpose, tell me some outrageous fantasy her mind has concocted and tell me about it in detail (even if it was about someone else)and how hot it makes her, then just straight out tell me she wants to fuck the shit out of me for a change, not fucking "snuggle".

12 Jan 2014

I wish wife would initiate more often massage blow job or just a simple fuck me now or come down in sexy lingerie

12 Jan 2014

My ex and I loved to tease each other. I used to sometimes, just rile him up by being scantily clad, whisper something naughty in his ear, touch him or leave him a lingering kiss. Then he'd grab me and we'd have sex. So basically I would never directly say 'I wanna fuck' because he took control all the time and could read me like an open book.

13 Jan 2014

I'm useless at initiating sex, It's always the other person who has to make a move on me

18 Jan 2014

I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment so there is a lot of "me" time in between our visits unfortunately. When it comes to phone or sex, I will usually wait for my partner to initiate it for some reason. When we're together, I think I'm the one that initiates more often or at least I'm more obvious about wanting some playtime even if it's just me taking care of him. That's not to say he never initiates when we're together but I think I'm still the one with the higher libido. And besides, we usually only get to see each other a week at a time so we need to get in as much lovin' as possible to keep us going until our next visit ;)

18 Jan 2014

I did, but after being turned down and being told no no no all the time, i just said fuck it and dont even try anymore.

18 Jan 2014

I do and I usually don't take no - rain checks are okay.

18 Jan 2014

I always initiate it and yes I wish she'd initiate it more often. slutting it up would do the trick.