I worked at a bank and he was the bank manger.
this was way back in 1984, things were different then, socially wise - and also I was naive.
he was very powerful in several ways, so I was at a disadvantage. 20 yrs older than me. and I was timid.
there was no promise of keeping my job or advancement or anything, but I actually thought to go along was normal.
yes, I was naive.
he'd say weird things about me and him having a future. huh? I was married and so was he so stuff like that didn't make any sense.
he'd take me to his house while his wife was working. I remember thinking that he could kill me, drown me in the hot tub. dump me in a dumpster and no one would know.
this went on for 8 months. dumb me just kept working there.
got a call out of the blue from a manager at a different branch, asked if I'd like to work there. Fortunately I'd met her at a company Christmas thing. so I went there. never heard or saw him again.
I was able to look back, see the mistakes, and signs. so it was a learning experience.
I can't honestly say that I regret the sex itself because I'm a bit of a sociopath, but I do regret the gratification I would get from seducing and then sleeping with some of my friends husbands/boyfriends or sons because I know it was wrong, and I regret that it makes me feel empowered to do things that are wrong.