Seriously, it doesn't matter if the garbage is taken out tomorrow morning instead, or that the car isn't clean, or that the grass is long outside, or if the dishes sit in the sink overnight.
Just relax will you, it's all irrelevant in the scheme of things.
Sometimes it takes awhile to learn that. I used to be very strict on house cleaning back in the day. My husband had a fit one day about it. He said I would much rather spend our time together in a slightly messy house than spend it "cleaning" together. Our quality time got much better after that.
I also find that it matters how you ask for something to be done as well. Instead of, "Take out the trash Derf", it's "Would you please take out the trash for me honey?" It gets done much faster.
I also told him that when he does manly things around the house, it turns me on. Makes me all warm and fuzzy inside. After that he would flex those muscles a little harder for me and of course I would make a big deal out of it.
He told me once that I talked nicer to strangers than to him. I found myself just telling him what to do, or just forgetting to be polite. He was right. No one likes to be treated without respect. Now we get on much better.
Like looking in a mirror!
I'm sure there was once an evolutionary reason for a "nag" gene. It was probably to get the men to go out hunting or something, or maybe to get them both back into the gene pool with some other mate. It may have outlived its usefulness, but it still does those things well.
Nag = wife or gf that's not getting fucked and or cumming enough by her S/O so whatever you do is viewed as your just a dumb ass! Otherwise if satisfied you're the knight in shining armor and who gives a shit about the trash!
Bunny12

Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off!