Is a guy being fat a turn off? Or does it not matter if he has a good personality?
I doubt a good personality is a huge turn on in the height of passion. If I was in love with the guy and he was overweight or had gained weight then as his partner I would but I couldn't say I'd be sexually attracted to him.
If a guy is confident about himself and has love handles and is overweight then yes, confidence is very sexy but if he was morbidly obese... No, I can't say he would float my boat...
I never have. The only guys I'm ever attracted to are young, skinny, boyish, and pretty. In other words, twinks! And they're usually gay! ~sigh~
It's definitely not a turn on. I have had a few men that I would call old but not really any fatties.
I lost my virginity to an obese guy. He was a real sweetie, I liked his personality and he was a good lover. However we didn't last as we lived to far away from each other. At the time I was skinny but 12 years later I am a large lady and my other half is thinner then me.
a random fat guy? no, but i wouldn't have sex with a random skinny guy either. as many have said, personality can, in some instances, override physical appearance. case in point, back when the sopranos was popular, i had a HUGE crush on james gandolfini. he used to drive me bananarama!