What I'm about to say may make me somewhat unpopular but I've never shied away from that either here or in any part of my life.
Why is it a big deal to meet someone from Lush or anywhere on the net as long as reasonable safety precautions are met?
Aren't we all living a somewhat social life where we see people almost every day and new people at least reasonably often?
What's the big deal? I mean really?
If you're afraid of them being a sexual predator or something like then meet them in a very public place and if you're especially afraid then how about bringing a friend the first meeting?
I'm willing to bet that if you even rarely go to restaurants or go shopping for groceries or whatever that you encounter sexual predators, creepy people, and perverts on a fairly regular basis. They're everywhere. They probably live in your own neighborhood too. Florida has a website that allows you to look for sexual predators by geographical area and I suspect most states have a similar resource.
You'd probably be surprised that you're surrounded by them.
Climb out of your shells people. Life is happening all around you and you're missing out if your only social interaction is an online presence on a website(s) where almost nobody presents their own actual pictures, name, or information. That is not a life. It's a fantasy world that will make you more and more withdrawn.
I'm not disrespecting Lush or any other website but it has limited application in a healthy lifestyle.
Nuff said and I didn't mean to offend anyone or hurt their feelings but I felt this needed to be said.
Just one man's opinion and not represented as anything more than exactly that.
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
Have met in person, 3 that I first met on Lush.
if she was female and as a friend only!
I always said outright no to everyone. But there is one that is tempting to say yes to.
That was not my plan for Lush when I joined and it has not changed.
Then after thinking about it there are a couple of people it would be hard to say NO to.
Yes... And I have met a couple
Yes... nice to meet new friends!
Never! Not what I’m here for
I probably would, but it is highly unlikely to find someone who lives nearby.
YES and have...so far very good!!!
There is one young lady with beautiful eyes that I'd love to meet. She could have her way with me time after time.
Yes I would and I have. It was an amazing week and I would do it again!
I would! It honestly depends on the person. I am open to an adventure, just need for it to knock on my door!
NEVER is too definite of a word. What I will say is that I've never used dating to find out about someone. I've always know something about the men I've gone out with beforehand. So I'm kind of familiar with who they are, how they treat others (men and women!) and their "beliefs." I've never had sex with someone who wasn't a committed boyfriend and I remain friends with all of my ex-b/f's - the relationships ended when one or the other of us moved away for whatever reason. Meeting someone from Lush would be like going out on a blind date. Lush profiles can't be trusted; they are (at best) crafted to put the profilee in the best light and are usually (at best) embellished to a larger or lessor degree. Some are outright lies. Thus I can say with a great deal of certainty that I probably would not. However, if I were to meet someone and found out he was a Lush member, that would not be a disqualifier for me.
I would, and have. It was an fantastic time for all!
We have and are still great friends with them, will do it again
I certainly would meet one Lady in particular.
Sorry, I didn't realize this was in ask the Gals
No. I don't meet anonymous guys through the Internet.
I met someone from MySpace years ago and we wound up having sex for 7 years, so it's not inconceivable, but highly unlikely. She lived nearby and she was beautiful, and we hit it off right away. That doesn't happen very often.
There is one person id meet for sure
Maybe, probably, not sure, but yeah, there would be other "first steps" before that though
