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Would you sell yourself?
In high school, I used to trade sex for drugs pretty regularly with this college student/drug dealer whom we will call Jim. He was nice looking, and so I didn't really think of it as true prostitution. More like acting out a prostitution fantasy. Usually it wasn't quid pro quo, but sometimes it was. There was once when I badly wanted to score an ounce of marijuana to take with me to a music festival, and the price was either $200 or 10 blowjobs to be spaced out whenever he wanted them over the next 3 months. I didn't have the $200, so I opted for the blowjobs. I gave him one right then, and then he called me over a few days later saying he wanted to cash in another one. When I got to his apartment, there was a little surprise. It wasn't just Jim there, but also 8 of his friends. He asked me if I wanted to pay off my entire debt right then. We had a brief debate about the transferability of his blowjob credits, but I agreed to the arrangement after he sweetened the deal by throwing in a dime bag. I managed to go through all 9 guys in about 45 minutes. This time, it did feel like true prostitution. A couple of the guys were unattractive, and my jaw was really sore by the end. But I liked the feeling... it was a turn on. It was an even bigger turn on when I learned that Jim's 8 friends had each paid him $50 for the blowjob.
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I truly don't know. I have screwed a lot of men who took me out for dinner or bought me a drink or two but that wasn't payment for sex. I don't need the money. I've been with a lot of men for free but would I fuck for money if I had to? Probably!
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Great post. This was always in my mind since watching the movie Indecent Proposal.
The answer is OH YES I WOULD. I think It would be an overall great and unique experience. Agreeing on a price.. the feeling of giving myself to someone who has actually paid for it. I have had some unique experiences but it was mutual willingness and understanding of just enjoying that moment.. on one experience a guy just got a hand..but they were always just extremely trilled, no matter what they got.. there was never the pressure of giving the best, your whole self... but now we're talking about someone that has actually paid for it. Exciting, exciting and challenging.
How much? well it would depend on who he is! Thousands!
Would it be in my opinion "prostitution"? NO!
Unless I start to do it again and again for money and establish a code and a prize, which I simply would not do.
Enough answer?
Not trying to be controversial at all but if you have sex for money, even just once- it is akin to prostitution. It doesn't mean that you are a prostitute but when sex/money are exchanged, it is prostitution, no two ways about it.
There is a huge stigma attached to women in the adult industry, whether as pornographic models, actresses or escorts but at the end of the day, sex is sex and should be enjoyed. If you enjoy sex and get paid for it, great. If you have sex and don't enjoy it, wouldn't the £££ make it better? All jokes aside though, there's nothing wrong with it if everyone is consenting to the activities and is aware of what they are agreeing to.
I've known escorts, some of whom are the nicest women I've met and honestly would date an escort without issue. Sex is sex, Love is completely different and people do stereotype sex workers unfairly. We all sell ourselves in some way, whether in an office where we sell our mental services or if we literally accept payment for sex, personally I don't think there's an issue with it.
For the record, I understand why you might say that it isn't prostitution if it's a one time thing but honestly, one you've been paid for sex, you have prostituted- even if you never do it again.
I'm Pro- Sex Worker Rights and think discrimination against people in the Adult Industry should end, if anybody wants to ask a question, feel free.
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To be honest, because I'm so damned competitive, I've always wondered (just idle curiosity) how much coin my looks and body could bring in on the high-priced call-girl market. In the abstract, I would have no moral compunctions about doing it, but I'm so picky about whom I bed down with, that the stoking of my ego and the satisfaction of my curiosity probably wouldn't outweigh the repugnance of whatever old geezer turned out to be the highest bidder. lol
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To be honest, because I'm so damned competitive, I've always wondered (just idle curiosity) how much coin my looks and body could bring in on the high-priced call-girl market. In the abstract, I would have no moral compunctions about doing it, but I'm so picky about whom I bed down with, that the stoking of my ego and the satisfaction of my curiosity probably wouldn't outweigh the repugnance of whatever old geezer turned out to be the highest bidder. lol
Guess that rules me out
... and I was gonna get out the ten dollar bills
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I truly don't know. I have screwed a lot of men who took me out for dinner or bought me a drink or two but that wasn't payment for sex. I don't need the money. I've been with a lot of men for free but would I fuck for money if I had to? Probably!
Alison ... I appreciate the candor in your answer. I believe the operative word in your comment is "had". I've never negotiated or paid for sex, but I did have a FWB relationship where I left money on her dresser after sex on several occasions. Poor lady was broke and I helped her with some money ... and would have given her some regardless of having sex. I just can't picture myself as "buying" sex under any circumstances.Mq19XCoSiF78ajuK
That I have done the cost of going to college is so high even some scholarships can't cover the cost and working at a fast food place or working in a store doesn't even come close to paying the tution unless you want to work your ass off all the time and that still won't cover the cost. So yes I did rent myself out while I was in college. The next question yes I would do it all over again if I had too. People can call it what they want to but it paid my way though college so I had time for studies instead of working all the time a worry about the cost. Next question is am I a shame of what I did no I'm not.
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I will sell myself for sex. I have done it in the past and doing it every now and then and I will keep doing in the future too.
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Once in college I was a little drunk and on a dare offered a guy a bj for 20 bucks. Another time I lost a bet with a friend and had to pay up with money I earned from fucking a guy.
not likely (for several, personal reasons). that said, tho, one's path over the next, five minutes MAY be manageable, but the subsequent five years are wholly - unknowable. while i like to think that life is priceless, life seemingly asserts everything has a price. hmmm, that was a wee-bit philosophical 
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I was a sugar baby in college. It helped in many ways, paid for books and essentials plus I was gifted several world wide trips.
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When I was in my twenties I found myself stranded in NYC. (I lived far from there) I went to bed for money, but only with men I would have gone with anyway. One of them tried to use me to pay for an out of town weekend with a friend. I refused and was put back on a train for the city, arriving destitute. The result is an interesting story, as are several other things that happened during those weeks, all involving very nice humans.
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That I have done the cost of going to college is so high even some scholarships can't cover the cost and working at a fast food place or working in a store doesn't even come close to paying the tution unless you want to work your ass off all the time and that still won't cover the cost. So yes I did rent myself out while I was in college. The next question yes I would do it all over again if I had too. People can call it what they want to but it paid my way though college so I had time for studies instead of working all the time a worry about the cost. Next question is am I a shame of what I did no I'm not.
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I know this is 'ask the gals" but I wanted to reply to this post. When I was in graduate school I was so broke I sold my blood (actually plasma) at the blood bank. I remember thinking to myself if I was a young woman I could work in a strip club and make my rent in one night. I don't know if I would have gone so for as too have sex for money, but I would have considered it.
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Yes, to the right person or people I could be persuaded .
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I'm actually a call girl/prostitute/slapper whatever you wanna call itI charge 50 for a blowjob, 150 for sex, 250 for anal and 400 anything goes. I don't neccessarily need the money - I just love the way it makes me feel :) I am completely professional and i am basically selling a serice - nothing wrong with that
I admire you candor and honesty. I worked as an escort while in college, because it was an excellent way to pay my debt and my bills. I graduated from law school debt free.
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I work promotions so sure I do in a way sell myself , its about the all mighty dollar
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If the auction is here at the Lush, I'd be willing to be sold to the highest bidder among some of my friends here lol
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I cant believe how good looking the women are on this site - amazing. It was only recently I realised that most of the avatars are of the actual site member. And the hotter they are - the dirtier the sex they write - truly shocking language etc - real xxx rated. Guys are tame by comparison.
So anyway - I have paid out for sex about 15 times in my life - and dont regret any - even if I didnt get off that well - I always enjoyed meeting the girls as they were all very nice and one or two were truly mind blowing. the first few girls I saw nothing much happened with me - but you need the right one that presses the hot buttons - and after 3 or 4 flat punts I found my girl, hottest body I've ever seen - ah that's worth paying for - her ass turned me on so much when she was on all fours I felt myself cumming every time I tried to penetrate her - in the end I had to turn her round and fuck her mish.
But I digress - would I fuck for money? No, because I'm a quick cummer and would have to refund every time. That's ok when you pay - but not when you get paid to lay.
So anyway - I have paid out for sex about 15 times in my life - and dont regret any - even if I didnt get off that well - I always enjoyed meeting the girls as they were all very nice and one or two were truly mind blowing. the first few girls I saw nothing much happened with me - but you need the right one that presses the hot buttons - and after 3 or 4 flat punts I found my girl, hottest body I've ever seen - ah that's worth paying for - her ass turned me on so much when she was on all fours I felt myself cumming every time I tried to penetrate her - in the end I had to turn her round and fuck her mish.
But I digress - would I fuck for money? No, because I'm a quick cummer and would have to refund every time. That's ok when you pay - but not when you get paid to lay.
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I have been nude dancer and I have been an escort also. All the dancers I knew did at least some kind of sex for money deals out of the club they danced in. Some every night with one guy or another and some just now and then and with guys they had developed some kind of relationship with.
I guess I was part of the latter group of dancers. I then was approached by an agency who wanted me to work for them at much higher prices that I had been getting. Of course I accept and continued with them until I had enough regulars I liked and no longer needed the agency. I worked out a deal with the agency to protect my cash flow.
It allow me to attend a private college and get my degree, one I could never have afforded without sex for pay. I know I was one of the higher priced escorts in the area.
Then I met an older woman a few months ago and she told me I was not only missing a lot of fun on Lush, but if you are going to have sex for money you should have the rich and powerful type of client and really get paid.
You see she had been The Escort to a number of Rich and Powerful people when she was my age.
She has invited me over for dinner to meet one of her friends in about two weeks. She says there are no commitments on my part but if I like the person I should give them a call.
I am not for sale, but I can be rented for an evening, a weekend or even longer if you like the merchandise.
I wonder.
I guess I was part of the latter group of dancers. I then was approached by an agency who wanted me to work for them at much higher prices that I had been getting. Of course I accept and continued with them until I had enough regulars I liked and no longer needed the agency. I worked out a deal with the agency to protect my cash flow.
It allow me to attend a private college and get my degree, one I could never have afforded without sex for pay. I know I was one of the higher priced escorts in the area.
Then I met an older woman a few months ago and she told me I was not only missing a lot of fun on Lush, but if you are going to have sex for money you should have the rich and powerful type of client and really get paid.
You see she had been The Escort to a number of Rich and Powerful people when she was my age.
She has invited me over for dinner to meet one of her friends in about two weeks. She says there are no commitments on my part but if I like the person I should give them a call.
I am not for sale, but I can be rented for an evening, a weekend or even longer if you like the merchandise.
I wonder.
First I don’t need the money. Second, if I was bought it would definitely be prostitution but how many of us women after an evening of dinner, drinks and dancing have fallen into bed with our companion! Isn’t the concept of dating with the gentleman paying in itself prostitution? Just a thought that’s bothered me from time to time
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Quote by OceanGoddessI would agree if the sex was a reward or a compensation for the money and time the gentleman (or lady) spent on entertaining you, but if it happens because there is genuine mutual attraction it's not prostitution at all.
First I don’t need the money. Second, if I was bought it would definitely be prostitution but how many of us women after an evening of dinner, drinks and dancing have fallen into bed with our companion! Isn’t the concept of dating with the gentleman paying in itself prostitution? Just a thought that’s bothered me from time to time
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I have had this fantasy many times. However, I do not know if I would actually have the nerve. If I had to sell my body to survive, than Of course I absolutely would. I just enjoy sex so much, that I would never want to do anything to diminish my pleasure with it. I think I would be afraid if sex became work, the pleasure would fade.
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No I would not sell myself. But I have rented myself out a few times. Let me explain. Hubbie and I have been married for over 38 years. We have had an open marriage for over 37 of them. At the same time we opened our marriage, I proudly and very willingly accepted his collar and became his SUBMISSIVE SEX SLAVE (SSS).
If you read my stories, which are based on a real event when I was 17, about "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower" you will understand.
For 11 years, twice a year, I was put on the auction block to the highest bidder to be his or her SSS for a 3 day weekend. I did not receive any of the money. The auction was a fund raiser for two well known children's charities.
We also had a fantasy and did rollplay of me being a hooker / street walker. So twice I have spent a week as a legal hooker in one of the whore houses out side of Los Vegas, NV. I did mostly BDSM scenes both weeks. Hubbie was there most of the time and played the part of my pimp. He negotiated my fees with the Johns. I did get to keep my share of the fees. I will let you know that my share is very nice. Hubbie says I am a, "high dollar hooker." None of the Johns ask for a refund or complained about the price.
We are members of a couple swing clubs and we roll play the hooker / pimp scene at the clubs. Hubbie offers me to total strangers. We keep it legal, as there is no money exchanged. The orgasms are super fantastic for all of us involved.
Brandie
If you read my stories, which are based on a real event when I was 17, about "My First Gang Bang and Golden Shower" you will understand.
For 11 years, twice a year, I was put on the auction block to the highest bidder to be his or her SSS for a 3 day weekend. I did not receive any of the money. The auction was a fund raiser for two well known children's charities.
We also had a fantasy and did rollplay of me being a hooker / street walker. So twice I have spent a week as a legal hooker in one of the whore houses out side of Los Vegas, NV. I did mostly BDSM scenes both weeks. Hubbie was there most of the time and played the part of my pimp. He negotiated my fees with the Johns. I did get to keep my share of the fees. I will let you know that my share is very nice. Hubbie says I am a, "high dollar hooker." None of the Johns ask for a refund or complained about the price.
We are members of a couple swing clubs and we roll play the hooker / pimp scene at the clubs. Hubbie offers me to total strangers. We keep it legal, as there is no money exchanged. The orgasms are super fantastic for all of us involved.
Brandie
Top Shot
Yah, no.
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