Putting this same question in the Ask Guy forum for comparison.
I've become fairly flexible, can deep throat a fat one; but enjoy teasing a guy licking the tip, shaft or balls. The past few years I've gotten back into edging & dabbing in Tantric sex, so its fun to tease a man & drive him crazy. Generally I have him in my mouth when he unloads, either with a condom or bareback, but sometimes its really hot to watch the spurt wrapped or not.
Tougher with women, particularly if they require a subtle gentle touch. A lot of them prefer a firm or rough technique & they are more obvious showing if I am turning them on or not. Also found a lot of women prefer having the Gspot stimulated with fingers or toys while the clit is stimulated. Some women I've found are particularly stimulated when i gather their labia & clit together in my mouth like a small cock & treat it that way.
So, how do you like to give?
Just lick. And suck. And try not to choke. Easy, really.
suck and stroke and always swallow ... never be a quitter by being a spitter!!
Now put your tongue in
And your tongue out
Tongue in
And blblblblbl!
You do the hokey pokey
Turn yourself around
That's what it's all about
I love taking my time. Really starting slow by the balls, then move my tongue up to the Base of his cock and lick up the shaft while looking up at him. My hand will massage his balls while my tongue circles the top of his cock. I place my lips around and slowly move down then sucking without using my hands. I sometimes use my teeth around to edge of his cock but closelywatch his response. Later I might speed up and use my hand.
On a girl it's testing, testing 1, 2, 3
Oooh 3 worked well,
3, 3, 3 recurring
On a guy it's the same, until he can't resist taking control
Hmm looks like the trend is for swallowing. No one thinks its erotic to let the orgasmic juices slowly run down the genitals & inner thighs, then sensually lick it back up?
Anyone here tried using either ice or a hot drink in their mouth when giving head?
I have used a mint or freshly brushed my teeth to give a cool feel but never ice or a hot drink...I'll put those on the list for the next willing participant. To the other point or watching those juices flowing down over the genitallia and then licking them up; that could be especially erotic.?
There are several:
1. The pussy motorboat
2. The buz saw tongue
3. The vibrating tongue
4. The put your whole head in and spin (Can cause permanent crossed eyedness)
There are a bunch more that can be added with the use of power tools. I don't recommend diesel powered tools, though, as things went wrong one time - she stutters and walks with a limp now. You really should be careful with electrical tools too, as I know one girl who has permanently frizzy hair as a result of an unexpected power surge.
I like to give the way they like to receive it - whether it be male or female. That means I have to employ a variety of techniques because my 5 FWB are all different in the way they enjoy their oral pleasures.
I also have my individual technique and I have never had a complaint.
I enjoy 'myself' as I give them their pleasures as well. My satisfaction is always to enjoy providing a more than average orgasm and enjoy the physical side of it with them - and the taste.