Anyone have porn addiction, and loose virginity when older?

Anyone loose their virginity later in life, and have performance issues from years of masturbation and porn.

Im 37 and still a virgin besides a few rub and tugs. The porn I've watched while masturbating has gotten more and more intense and I need more intense sensation to get off. I can get turned on by alot, and can be hard all day and even dribble all day thinking about an encounter. However, every time Ive been with someone, (professional woman, professional trans woman, or men thru dating sites), I'll be super turned on going into it, but have lost my hard-on every single time. Both of us have left unsatisfied everytime.

There's definitely porn and onlyfans addiction plus age causing my ed issues.

How have some of you gotten over this if you can't be close with anyone?

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Anyone loose their virginity later in life, and have performance issues from years of masturbation and porn.

Im 37 and still a virgin besides a few rub and tugs. The porn I've watched while masturbating has gotten more and more intense and I need more intense sensation to get off. I can get turned on by alot, and can be hard all day and even dribble all day thinking about an encounter. However, every time Ive been with someone, (professional woman, professional trans woman, or men thru dating sites), I'll be super turned on going into it, but have lost my hard-on every single time. Both of us have left unsatisfied everytime.

There's definitely porn and onlyfans addiction plus age causing my ed issues.

How have some of you gotten over this if you can't be close with anyone?

It sounds like you have performance anxiety while also having priapism. There can be underlying condions causing those. I'm not an expert. I don't have erectile problems with my partner. Best to book an appointment with a urologist, a medical specialist who can do a full proper assessment to identify the cause and provide professional diagnosis, expert advice and treatment options for your condition.

Quote by rshackleford901

Anyone loose their virginity later in life, and have performance issues from years of masturbation and porn.

Im 37 and still a virgin besides a few rub and tugs. The porn I've watched while masturbating has gotten more and more intense and I need more intense sensation to get off. I can get turned on by alot, and can be hard all day and even dribble all day thinking about an encounter. However, every time Ive been with someone, (professional woman, professional trans woman, or men thru dating sites), I'll be super turned on going into it, but have lost my hard-on every single time. Both of us have left unsatisfied everytime.

There's definitely porn and onlyfans addiction plus age causing my ed issues.

How have some of you gotten over this if you can't be close with anyone?

One other suggestion - stay away from porn and OnlyFans. Use your imagination to help you masturbate. Just my opinion.

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It sounds like you have performance anxiety while also having priapism. There can be underlying condions causing those. I'm not an expert. I don't have erectile problems with my partner. Best to book an appointment to a urologist, a medical specialist who can do a full proper assessment to identify the cause and provide professional diagnosis, expert advice and treatment options for your condition.

You're right, Expert advice is probably the best option. Figured one other person had a similar issue. Seems alot more common when I research it. Needed to atleast ask anyone before I went professional

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You're right, Expert advice is probably the best option. Figured one other person had a similar issue. Seems alot more common when I research it. Needed to atleast ask anyone before I went professional

Or check with a GP first, in case you won't need a uro, and also your insurance coverage, especially if you will need a referral before a urologist consult.