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Do you know why feeling femme feels so good for some of us men?
Cryptic Vigilante
Nope, I legitimately have no idea.
Active Ink Slinger
I think some of it has to do with the joy of acting. Just like little kids like to dress up as cowboys, princesses, pirates, and all kinds of other things, some men like to experience a taste of being the object of their admiration. Apart from that, many men feel there's not enough opportunity to express their feminine side in the rest of life. This is changing in some spheres of life; for example, it's much more socially acceptable for dads to be nurturing and warm rather than just bringing home the paycheck and disciplining kids. But in other spheres, we're still a pretty gendered society and feminine qualities are not seen as a plus in a dude. Doing things to feel femme is a way for these gentlemen to express those qualities.
The WORDING of your question is interesting... "Feeling Femme" Well, I'm not sure I ever do... That said, I enjoy ACTING in a theatrically flamboyant way upon occasion... (I'm old enough to be aware of the delicious difference between FEMME and High-Camp...)
To a LOT of straight guys, (and to my chagrin a few straight women...) I am often perceived as gay as a frosted fairy cake...
My gay male friends laugh loudly when I suggest this! (As indeed they might!)
(Those straight girls who know me well also find that funny...)
I think there's a difference between 'FEMME' and 'camp'... (And I'm as CAMP as ersatz coffee!*) Nobody will get that!
I do what I like. (You'll get it or you won't...) I'd RATHER you get it, but maybe you won't. It doesn't keep me awake at nights.
People do what they do, as they can, as it works for them.
Be YOURSELF in the moment you're in.
xx SF
* (If you get that I'll write you a poem.)
To a LOT of straight guys, (and to my chagrin a few straight women...) I am often perceived as gay as a frosted fairy cake...
My gay male friends laugh loudly when I suggest this! (As indeed they might!)
(Those straight girls who know me well also find that funny...)
I think there's a difference between 'FEMME' and 'camp'... (And I'm as CAMP as ersatz coffee!*) Nobody will get that!
I do what I like. (You'll get it or you won't...) I'd RATHER you get it, but maybe you won't. It doesn't keep me awake at nights.
People do what they do, as they can, as it works for them.
Be YOURSELF in the moment you're in.
xx SF
* (If you get that I'll write you a poem.)