Hi guys
Curiosity makes me ask Do you really want to know!!!!!
When you ask what
*are you doing,
*what are your plans for the day etc
Do you really want to hear
* i'm washing up
*watching tv
I.E the truth
or do you want to hear
*i'm naked on the sofa waiting for you sexy!!!
I know thesze are the extremes but you get what i.m saying i hope.
I believe in telling the truth on ,i have a partner and 2 children etc but how far should this go?
I always like a bit of small talk to break the ice, so i usually just talk about stuff ive been doing, gonna be doing, or whatever im doing at the time, it might not be horny, but its getting a bit of banter going, and i like friendly banter, just because its an adult site, doesnt mean the convo needs to be horny all the bloody time. I cant see any point in lying about what im doing, just to entertain somebody, i dont get much out of that. I always find it best to be honest with people, i cant see any point in lies. And im not one of these guys who goes in guns blazing with all filthy talk straight off the bat, i find that far too forward and pervy. Besides, you cant get to know anything about anybody, when you only talk sex, and im not just here for sexual convo, i also want to get to know people and make new friends, that means proper civilised conversation about serious things, as well find out about people. I might be a red blooded male, but i also believe in treating girls with some respect, and having a little respect for myself too. I know, yes, we are all here because we are a set of horny buggers, but that doesnt mean we need to be obsessed with nothing except filthy sex talk all the time, its like anything, food or drink, its all good, in moderation.
The anticipation of a girl talking sexy to me is exciting, but I find when it does happen it makes me nervous.
On day to day conversation, I really don't long to hear the day to day items, and relish hearing her thoughts instead.
If it ask, "What are you doing?"
I love to hear, "Thinking of you, now."
And I really enjoy her calling me just to say, "You were in my mind, so I just wanted to hear your voice."
I may not be the norm, so it seems I am just a romantic...
I would ask those things and would actually be interested in knowing!
I am sincere with my small talk. I truly want to know about the person I am talking too.
I really want to know. The most interesting conversations have their roots in the mundaneness of life.
These answers are really surprising me. Keep them coming please!
If I ask it is because I want to now. For what other reason would anyone ask?
