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Enhanced Masturbation Techniques.

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As a middle-aged man I have quite a lot of masturbation experience under my belt. I can, with a great deal of patience, prolong my pleasure and enjoyment of one wanking session quite successfully these days.

My question is this: do any of you guys have any hints or tips to share to help prolong and magnify the pleasure to be gained from solo masturbation (as opposed to having your partner do it for you, which is something different altogether). Here is one I use quite often:

Masturbate as normal until you feel yourself close to climax. Using baby oil or any suitable lubricant rub your erect cock as slowly as you are able with your fingers barely touching yourself. The longer you are able to control yourself the longer and more intense your climax will be when it eventually cums. The trick is to not rush yourself to climax, which is the temptation when you are on the brink...

Try it, practice it. It WILL be worth it, I promise
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One of the best techniques I've found for solo masturbation is to lie on your stomach between two beds or two chairs. To me it feels like Gravity is having more of a pull on the cum than in other positions which makes it more pleasurable.

(Obviously put a towel or something down underneath you)
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One of the best techniques I've found for solo masturbation is to lie on your stomach between two beds or two chairs. To me it feels like Gravity is having more of a pull on the cum than in other positions which makes it more pleasurable.

(Obviously put a towel or something down underneath you)


I'm assuming you mean you masturbate whilst in that position?
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Masturbate as normal until you feel yourself close to climax. Using baby oil or any suitable lubricant rub your erect cock as slowly as you are able with your fingers barely touching yourself. The longer you are able to control yourself the longer and more intense your climax will be when it eventually cums. The trick is to not rush yourself to climax, which is the temptation when you are on the brink...

Try it, practice it. It WILL be worth it, I promise


Actually, I've done that one. You'll see stars if you do it right. Don't get it to do it that way often,. though. Soap in the shower works similarly but I've never been able to get it as intense.

Lubing up my palm and fingers, then slowly fucking my fist while not squeezing too tightly gives a nice cum, too, but that's really a variation of yours.

Have had some good ones from humping sheets, pillows, etc. but that makes for a lot of cleanup.
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I'm assuming you mean you masturbate whilst in that position?



You are right. When you said "magnify pleasure" I thought you were looking for some techniques!
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I'd say I am a connoisseur of masturbation.

Tried almost everything that's been invented and then some smile

Experiment and find out what you like. Everyone's body is a little different.

I like prostate vibrators and stimulators.

Try straddling one of those big vibrators, so it's massaging your perineum, while you stroke your cock. It hits the outside of your prostate and underside of your balls. I'd say that's a good one almost every time!
Reversed of what you see in the pic, so the two probes are on either side of the perineum and bas of the balls.



These ones with the "cup" attachment are pretty good. I'll let you figure out how to use it;



The shower massager with the spray at certain settings is great on the balls



The one I have, also has a "blade" setting which works on the ridge in the glans for me and literally lifts my cock up and down.

So for more, you might have to wait for the book to come out ;)
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I'd say I am a connoisseur of masturbation.

Tried almost everything that's been invented and then some smile

Experiment and find out what you like. Everyone's body is a little different.

I like prostate vibrators and stimulators.

Try straddling one of those big vibrators, so it's massaging your perineum, while you stroke your cock. It hits the outside of your prostate and underside of your balls. I'd say that's a good one almost every time!
Reversed of what you see in the pic, so the two probes are on either side of the perineum and bas of the balls.



These ones with the "cup" attachment are pretty good. I'll let you figure out how to use it;



The shower massager with the spray at certain settings is great on the balls



The one I have, also has a "blade" setting which works on the ridge in the glans for me and literally lifts my cock up and down.

So for more, you might have to wait for the book to come out ;)

I'll wait for the film, as long as you are in it!
I just lay on the bed and think of someone sucking their own dick and then ejaculating over his head. If only I could fine a guy that could do that!
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Masturbate as normal until you feel yourself close to climax. Using baby oil or any suitable lubricant rub your erect cock as slowly as you are able with your fingers barely touching yourself. The longer you are able to control yourself the longer and more intense your climax will be when it eventually cums. The trick is to not rush yourself to climax, which is the temptation when you are on the brink...


The technique that you described is known as 'edging'. I often perform this when I'm masturbating with my hand, though I don't really need to 'go slowly' or 'barely touch myself'. I just masturbate normally, then slow down and hold back when I'm nearing orgasm. I can usually last around an hour masturbating that way, and yes, the orgasm is incredible when I finally ejaculate.

Otherwise, I like to use my toys every now and then: it adds a lot to the fun/pleasure.

For a laid-back session, I like to use my Sasha Grey Deep Throat Sucker:



That thing really feels great all around my cock, it's much more intense than simply using my hand. It feels much similar to a real deep-throat blowjob, the only difference is that I'm in full control of the movement (which can be both an advantage/disadvantage, depending on how you look at it). I like to go rather sensually when I'm using it, and also select a sensual POV deep-throating scene to masturbate to.

I usually prefer to offer girls a proper energetic fuck when I'm not in a steady relationship and only meet them every once in a while, so this toy is nice for me when I want a solo-session that's a bit more relaxed during the week. It's probably the best masturbator for the price: $12 on Amazon.


If I seek something quite a bit more intense/vigorous, I use my Fleshlights. You can check my reviews of them here: Fleshlight Reviews.





For some reason, when my hips are moving/thrusting into something, it adds a lot to the sensation for me; I can feel it all around my pelvic region. A fun thing that I like to do is set a dirty scene on my TV/computer (my TV is connected to my computer), then I enjoy performing the exact same positions that the actors are performing on the screen. Different positions provide different sensations for me (angle of thrusts, placement of legs, etc.), so it's great to be 'surprised' with many different positions as I'm fucking my Fleshlight.

It's nowhere as satisfying as fucking a real girl, but it's wonderful to practice my skills and to experiment with my 'porn fantasies'.

I swear, I really feel like a porn star at times.

Masturbation can be quite a lot of fun if you're not afraid to add some creativity, variety and toys to your sessions. Don't be afraid to experiment people!
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I'll wait for the film, as long as you are in it!
I just lay on the bed and think of someone sucking their own dick and then ejaculating over his head. If only I could fine a guy that could do that!


Well I appreciate the endorsement, biggrin and would not object to anyone enjoying a film, images, stories, of mine...

But out in the real world, it's the girls that I gravitate to ;)

Cheers
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Well I appreciate the endorsement, biggrin and would not object to anyone enjoying a film, images, stories, of mine...

But out in the real world, it's the girls that I gravitate to ;)

Cheers

That makes it even better, lol.
If you've made a film, I hope you used a wide angle lens. I want to see where the cum lands!
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Well I appreciate the endorsement, biggrin and would not object to anyone enjoying a film, images, stories, of mine...

But out in the real world, it's the girls that I gravitate to ;)

Cheers

That makes it even better, lol.
Even made me double post!
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Have you ever used a body massager on your cock and balls for example the Wahl Compact Body Massager? Either yourself in solo play or with a partner?