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Lately i have a big problem. For 35 years of marriage my wife decides that she will no longer suck my dick. She even use to let me cum in her mouth once in awhile. Now she does NOT want me touch myself in front of her. i need it so very badly. She says that there is no one else that she is having an affair with . I have found a gay club where you pay a small entrance fee & get naked & suck whoever you want to or get sucked. SHOULD i GO TO THAT CLUB. Be Honest & polite with your answers Please`~

Are you thinking about sucking cock, as well as being sucked by a guy?

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Are you thinking about sucking cock, as well as being sucked by a guy?

Yes it goes together right??

Not always… if you just need to unload you could go, close you eyes while some random guys sucks you and imagine it’s a woman (even your wife lol)

But if you want to suck cock then that’s a different line to cross….

Well i am kinda curious to see what my wife seems to hate about it all of a sudden. i tried sucking one years ago & it was pretty awesome~

Yes I agree. I adore sucking cock. Good luck at the club!

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Yes I agree. I adore sucking cock. Good luck at the club!

I went & again it was awesome. All these beautiful dicks walking around waiting to be sucked. i got mine sucked & he swallowed my juices.

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to be honest, I feel more comfortable when I am able to do some search online rather than meeting with someone total random in a club. but whatever will make you happy ofc.

THANKS; i will check out the page you sent me. i was seeing a counselor but she decided to retire so that stopped/ Altho she suggested me to try the gay club to get it out of my system; I almost feel bad cheating on my wife with a guy. i am just so desperate since my body seems to crave blowjobs & now i never get anything. No anal No handjobs & i cant touch myself in front of her at all.

It’s a tough situation. Is it a betrayal for you to go smoke some dick? Then again, maybe your wife refusing you is a betrayal too. These are up for you to decide.

I’ve only sucked a dick once, but it was really awesome. If I ever decide I’m ready to do it again - and that day may come - I’ll can’t wait to get a hot penis pumping my mouth full of jizz again. Truly a wonderful taste and feeling.

Glad you had a good time at the club, and “All these beautiful dicks walking around waiting to be sucked” has me hard and stroking just thinking about it.

I feel your pain, my partner has stopped sucking my cock too. She never let me finish in her mouth, so be thankful ahe did. Honestly why would tou want a man to suck you off or you suck a man off unless you have bi feelings. Speak to your partner and find out why she doesnt want to suck you off anymore?. Men have needs aswell as women, maybe wait till she falls asleep then have a play as she will be none the wiser. Explain to her that you enjoyed her sucking you off, if shes stopped that has she stopped anything else. Could she be having an affair maybe, so many questions to ask. Personally a Gay club is not the answer, if yoir partner is adamant she not going to do it anymore and if she has stopped everything else, then tell her your feelings, suggest an open sexual relationship as lomg as she agrees to you just having a bj then you can find someone knowing that your partner is happy for you. Discuss if fully, doubke question and make sure she consents before you go elsewhere. If she disagrees, the. I guess Lushstories is as good a place as anything to have a play and release too.

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I feel your pain, my partner has stopped sucking my cock too. She never let me finish in her mouth, so be thankful ahe did. Honestly why would tou want a man to suck you off or you suck a man off unless you have bi feelings. Speak to your partner and find out why she doesnt want to suck you off anymore?. Men have needs aswell as women, maybe wait till she falls asleep then have a play as she will be none the wiser. Explain to her that you enjoyed her sucking you off, if shes stopped that has she stopped anything else. Could she be having an affair maybe, so many questions to ask. Personally a Gay club is not the answer, if yoir partner is adamant she not going to do it anymore and if she has stopped everything else, then tell her your feelings, suggest an open sexual relationship as lomg as she agrees to you just having a bj then you can find someone knowing that your partner is happy for you. Discuss if fully, doubke question and make sure she consents before you go elsewhere. If she disagrees, the. I guess Lushstories is as good a place as anything to have a play and release too.

I don't exactly have an answer as to why she stopped but she says that for 35 years of our marriage she has hated it & will never do it again. She use to do ti with no problem but thats not the case anymore. At a gay club i am garanteed a blowjob. AND my body needs it so very badly. She has cut out anal & never does hand jobs so i am S,O,L, in everything.

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It’s a tough situation. Is it a betrayal? Then again, maybe your wife refusing you is a betrayal too. These are up for you to decide.

I’ve only sucked a dick once, but it was really awesome. If I ever decide I’m ready to do it again - and that day may come - I’ll can’t wait to get a hot penis pumping my mouth full of jizz again. Truly a wonderful taste and feeling.

Glad you had a good time at the club, and “All these beautiful dicks walking around waiting to be sucked” has me hard and stroking just thinking about it.

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It’s a tough situation. Is it a betrayal? Then again, maybe your wife refusing you is a betrayal too. These are up for you to decide.

I’ve only sucked a dick once, but it was really awesome. If I ever decide I’m ready to do it again - and that day may come - I’ll can’t wait to get a hot penis pumping my mouth full of jizz again. Truly a wonderful taste and feeling.

Glad you had a good time at the club, and “All these beautiful dicks walking around waiting to be sucked” has me hard and stroking just thinking about it.

that club was awesome & i can see going back. One problem is that I locked my keys in the locker & could not get dressed. Luckily that had a bolt cutter. Where are you located?

Glad you went to the club in the end, souds like you had a fun time. We have a club about an hour and 30 drive away, its a gay club during the day and a sex club on weekends. Tried the gay one once, im totally straight but had that niggle what would it be like so off i went. £10 entry fee and didnt realise it was naked day, ohh well i thought so got changed quick shower dried off and went for a walk round. Usual rules towel on in lounge areas otherwise do as you wish. As im walking round so many older men than myself just sat talking with a video of a man and woman fucking and they were just chatting and having a play, so i joined them. Most had small ones 3-4 inches maybe and then me, 7.5 and thick just there and they just looked and smiled. Each one came over and had a play, the odd one kissed or sucked the end which was odd but nice, so i had a play back and yes did have a suck or two. Moved on into another room and again older men so im thinking why only older men and didnt bother me anyway. Next thing i see this old bloke gets up, bends this other bloke over and starts fucking him hard, both are on poppers the other guys wanking off less than a minute they had both cum. So off i went, stayed another hour not much more fun as most if them after cumming once were done and left. So was just me so i left, but the receptionist had seen me walking round and as im back in the changing rooms over she comes and starts to play with me, she drops to her knees and starts to suck, well by now i was ready to cum and i filled her mouth so much she gagged and was struggling to swallow it all. What she spilt she made sure she finished off. Maybe next time ill share my experience in the sex club.

If all you're looking for is to get your dick sucked, or to suck off another guy, then go for it. No commitments, no emotional bond. It's a win-win (unless your wife finds out!)

That’s my nightmare of marriage, which is why I never went there. Does anything feel better than a blowjob? I know for me nothing does. So when I hear that a lot of women don’t like doing it it’s always disheartening for me.

Why wouldn’t you want to give your man the best feeling in the world? I have no patience for such women.

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Lately i have a big problem. For 35 years of marriage my wife decides that she will no longer suck my dick. She even use to let me cum in her mouth once in awhile. Now she does NOT want me touch myself in front of her. i need it so very badly. She says that there is no one else that she is having an affair with . I have found a gay club where you pay a small entrance fee & get naked & suck whoever you want to or get sucked. SHOULD i GO TO THAT CLUB. Be Honest & polite with your answers Please`~

No risk of disease is too high.

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That’s my nightmare of marriage, which is why I never went there. Does anything feel better than a blowjob? I know for me nothing does. So when I hear that a lot of women don’t like doing it it’s always disheartening for me.

Why wouldn’t you want to give your man the best feeling in the world? I have no patience for such women.

i am totally running out of patience too~

I'm a bisexual man. Married to a woman in her late fifties. She stopped having sex pretty much cold turkey quite a few years ago. It's a very natural thing. However, hubby wants a blow job. Maybe fuck now and then. I can tell you how many married men in their late forties/early fifties have cum in my mouth. There are apps. But you want to be discreet, so you'll have to keep it off your phone. A lot of guys use the app, have a quick hookup, then delete the app until they have time to play again. You won't believe the married men that sneak over to my house and actually take my cock in their ass. So many men go through life curious, and this becomes a sexual wakening. I try to help these men meet one another. Turned out, two guys lived less than a 5-minute walk from one another. Now they're playing in the tool shed and garage weekly. If you can fight the nerves and get with a guy the first time, you'll be good.