I accidentally opened a chat window a bit ago, and I guess he had just seen the picture I posted on "picture representing your mood" because he said he wanted to be tied to the bed and have a ruined orgasm. He left before I could ask what the hell he was talking about.
I have never heard of a "bad" orgasm much less one so bad that it is ruined.
Sure, I have had orgasms that weren't as great as some, but never close to what I would call a bad/ruined one.
Do you guys experience these kinds of orgasms sometimes?
If so, how would you describe it, how come you think it happened and why would one be wanted?
Isn't it a technical term used in BDSM circles?
I must admit I had never heard of it but there are references to it on-line.
From what I can gather it is where someone is brought to the point of orgasm and then stimulation is removed. So I guess in the case of the man you were chatting to he would want to be tied up and wanked, or whatever, until he started cumming and then left to it with no further touching. I think it is the next step up from orgasm denial as practised in sub/dom relationships.
Only ever had THREE bad orgasms........
Two were with girls I Knew I was about to finish with....... (SEE, I'm NOT that Nice!!!)
The other Bad Orgasm was with this totally crazy bitch who I had to FAKE an orgasm with 'cos she was quite nuts....... (So, technically, not an Orgasm.......)
The other five have been wonderful.......... (And in TWO of those there was a girl involved!!!!!)
xx SF
My WORST orgasm was GREAT!
