how to make a man last longer when sex with natural way???
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Going slow and avoiding too much stimulation of the penis, esp. on an uncut one. I'm hypersensitive around the glans and head, which means blowjobs will, in all likelihood, make me blow.
Getting him off early and then having him focus on your for a while until he's ready again can work if his recharge time isn't too long.
I've heard that using a heavier condom with plenty of lube can help, too (or just more lube if you're barebacking). Reduces stimulation due to friction when entering or something like that. It does kind of tally with my experience but I have not tried it.
Mood and the amount of foreplay all contribute. I consider the actual intercourse only part of making love. For me it starts with the first kiss or touch. Caressing, stimulating, massaging, licking, manipulating, kissing, and talking are all part of it. Your senses are heightened. Your mind is focused and conjoined with your partner. Penetration is anticipated and intense. Your union has changed from desire to need. Your bodies are working in unison. Your entire nervous system is charged and explodes like a skyrocket in your mind. You forgot to set the timer but it seemed to last forever on the emotional clock.
Guys when you feel it cumming on think of something else that is totally not related to what you are doing,,like rebuilding a transmission , or anything off the wall like that. It throws your thought patterns off and you can keep from coming several times doing that .
What I did is I began really taking my time making love with my wife. She seemed to enjoy it like that as well. When I was soon about to cum, I would just stop dead, until the need to cum subsided. Then I would resume making love until I was about to cum again, repeating the same stopping dead. It takes practice, and time, but it was well worth it for me. I wish you luck.
Going slow and avoiding too much stimulation of the penis, esp. on an uncut one. I'm hypersensitive around the glans and head, which means blowjobs will, in all likelihood, make me blow.
It's a joint effort, but most of it is on the man to learn control. What you can do is to know your partner, know when he's getting close to orgasm, and easing him back down. A good way is to pinch his penis at the very base of it, not from side to side, but front to back. Hold tightly and don't move or let go. If he's not too far gone, it should settle him down. If successful, don't resume direct stimulation right away: hug, kiss, but let him calm down.
This is easy if you're performing oral, but if he's penetrating you, ease off his penis very very slowly, then try the pinch. Be direct and assertive with the movement, because if he is too close to the edge, he may orgasm before you can employ the technique.
That's my 2 cents worth.
Use a condom. I find it difficult to orgasm with a condom on, prolonging it to the point of frustration.
Thinking of Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day. Yeah baby.
When you know it’s likely you’ll get sex, masturbate soon before, perhaps an hour before but without letting the girl know! I find that slows me down when I’m with her and I take ages to cum.
Just before orgasm have your partner circle the head of your cock firmly between her thumb and forefinger and hold until the urge passes then resume
The more, the better. The more sex I have, the more stamina I build. As for other things that has worked for me, I found that when I begin to feel the big O wanting to cum out and I know she isn't ready, I would stop, not pull out, but just slow to a stop and open my eyes wide. That would almost always break my feeling. Then I could start back and finish with her. Cock rings. They do work. Have him wear one that bumps her clit every stroke. This is a mutual trade. It holds him a bit longer, it brings her to climax a bit sooner.
Ride the guy. One lasts way much longer when tge girl is on the top, as opposed to e.g. missionary
Seeker4 says: "...if his recharge time isn't too long." Except when I'm on the little blue pills, my recovery time can be anything up to two hours. Anyone suggest how I can shorten it?
Some good answers already.
Premature ejaculation is often related to anxiety/excitement. Taking it slow is definitely the thing to do. Lots of foreplay, but take your time allowing him to relax and get used to the sensations. Positive communication can be helpful, but you'd probably want to be delicate about it - ask him how whatever you're doing feels, but don't be like "Are you going to cum now?" which is focused more direclty on the problem and can be embarrassing or discouraging. Also, you can get him to focus on you and your pleasure during foreplay, which may distract from his own excitement. When you do move on to intercourse, again, take it slow and easy until he feels comfortable. You can use the stop-start method, where he pulls out when he feels himself getting close to cumming. Take a break for a few seconds to cool down, maybe change positions, then start again (you see this a lot in porn, which is one of the reasons porn stars last as long as they do). And if he does cum quickly, don't shame him for it or get upset. Instead, remember, practice makes perfect. The more you have sex with the guy the less anxious he'll be each time (hopefully), and he should be able to last longer.
Post-avant-retro-demelodicized-electro-yodel-core is my jam.
masturbate with a vacuum cleaner before every date
