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Husbands would you share your wife with another man while you watched?

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What an ideal time for a question that stimulates my mind...if it were only that simple...lol...Open marriages and relationships are only successful if there is absolute honesty and trust between the 2 central figures in the relationship....if I ever could accept the fact that I couldn't satisfy my partner sexually...then I hope I would make a decision based on rational reasoning...as opposed to knee jerk emotional disaster....As a husband to allow this or even encourage it would require a monumental shift in cultural thinking(at least in the U.S.) as far as what a man's ego can disregard...I feel that way too often the definitions of what an "Open " relationship means differ substantially in terms of how each party defines it. Are we seeing other people? exclusive?....engaged? separated? all very confusing. For me sure I could watch my wife get fucked.....but deep down that would mean we're even for that one night stand I had that she doesn't ever need to hear about....Or the one that I'm gonna have because you put me through this. EVEN THOUGH...I smiled and agreed to it...if I were to ever be involved in swinging again..the lesson is leave your thoughts about it in the bedroom(or wherever it occurred)...not because. I'm ashamed of it..rather egos...jealousy..envy...vengeance..all get fueled by words of past deeds...if my wife wanted to be with another man..I would probably not want to know any more than what time she'll be home in the morning..or next week..lol
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I wouldn't phrase it quite that way. I've had MFMs with her and her then-boyfriend, but it wasn't me 'sharing' because I don't own her.
Advanced Wordsmith
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I'd be willing if she really wanted it. I'd never ask her to do it for me because it's one of those fantasies that are fun to think about, but not necessarily to do.

I'd want to be there in plain view. No hiding in a closet.

I'd also expect equal time the other way. Me with a woman while she watches. Fair is fair, after all.
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I'd be willing if she really wanted it. I'd never ask her to do it for me because it's one of those fantasies that are fun to think about, but not necessarily to do.

I'd want to be there in plain view. No hiding in a closet.

I'd also expect equal time the other way. Me with a woman while she watches. Fair is fair, after all.
Lurker
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I would definitely love to watch my wife! If she wants it I will let her do whatever she wants. I guess I'm whipped....lol
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At this time it's totally in my head but if she was open to it I could possibly entertain going further with it. Gotta be unanimous and comfortable for all parties.
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No chance, not even a girlfriend, maybe a girl I just met and have no real feelings for,yes,ah wait I did that....but partner no chance
Active Ink Slinger
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I think I could if it was something we were both into.
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Nice as a fantasy, but I would be insanely jealous, so not really.
Rookie Scribe
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Yes, we use to be swingers..did alot of sharing of my wife, always enjoyed watching her other guys.
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Sharing my wife; My wife and I have been married for 30 years so far, and we have sex about three or four times a week now not as much as we use too. I’m 52 and she just turned 50 in Jan. The sex has never been better and I can give her all she can stand and take (and she can take a very hard fucking), we use a lot of toys on her and she loves them all (some of the toys we have are; nipple and clit suckers, bedroom bondage items, mouth gags, The Cerberus K9 sheath, a large blue Kong, and a few other dildo’s). She loves to play with all of them but always says my cock is the best. My cock is 7” and very thick and like I said she always says that my cock the best, and she always cum and squirts when I fuck her and her orgasms are always the best one ever as she always puts it. But for some reason I think I would love to watch her be fucked by another man. It's a long held fantasy of mine and one that I would love to come true. We have talked it over and she always said that she is happy with just me and would not like another cock but I would love to watch her ride a cock bigger then mind and then slowly add my cock to her as she rode someone else’s. She has always been a hot little freak in and out of bed. And yes I think I would love to let the genie out of the bottle and just see how much of a freak she is and hope I could hang on for the ride. I think seeing my wife being pleasured would be a really big turn on. What do you think??? Should talk her into it???
Rookie Scribe
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Yes it's my mission in life!
Active Ink Slinger
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No. Having walked in on my Ex......
Rookie Scribe
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I hope you men think really hard on this one...
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All things ARE relative. For me personally, having shared GF's I cared about with a close friend for a fun time for all with no emotional involvement. YES, under those type of circumstances. BUT, it REQUIRES a certain mindset and that is that other people are simply sex toys with lips, tongues, arms legs and a mind!
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i have a few times and im looking for some one new for her
Active Ink Slinger
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Gotta be consensual. I'd rather join than watch.
Active Ink Slinger
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I've been in two open relationships and in both I got to experience watching and joining each woman with both other men and women. I have to admit I enjoyed every experience but it's not for everyone or every relationship. If either person in isn't completely comfortable in sharing their mate then it'll likely end badly.
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Actually, it's Dave JuLee's husband. We married shortly after her graduation from college. The only sex she had before me was with her female room mate in school. We married and I was transferred back to the US. After a year or two and old military friend of mine (Mac) moved to our area. We rekindled our friendship and he became a frequent visitor to our home having recently divorced. JuLee came home after work one evening and said " Mac wants to fuck me so badly, what do you think?" "How do you know? I asked." She said she has been teasing him for so long and that today when she was dropping off some contracts to him she could tell he was really turned on by her short skirt. As she stood by his desk she noticed his very apparent hard on and the wet spot on the front of his pants. She moved closer to him. He took her hand to the front of his pants and she couldn't resist unzipping him and stroking his cock. At the same time he ran his hand up her leg and slid his finger into her already wet pussy. She came and then he shot a huge load into her hand, which she licked off as Mac licked his fingers covered with her juice.
Anyway, they fucked and still are and he and I give her a threesome at least two or three times a month and have a ball. It works for us and her being Bi is great for me as she has some fabulous looking girlfriends.
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yes i would i love hearing and reading about what guys would do to my girl
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes i most definitely would.
Active Ink Slinger
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Yes and we already do it! Awesome
Advanced Wordsmith
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No... not my cup of tea. I can't just watch.
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
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No. The idea is kind of hot in theory, but I am too jealous and alpha-male-ish to do it without it bothering me intensely.
Active Ink Slinger
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I just love watching her cum with another man inside her. Then, entering her filled pussy is SO sexy!
Active Ink Slinger
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I only have fantasies about it, but in real life I would never do it.
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It is an interesting question, and I am surprised at the range of answers... but I love my Lover and we satisfy each other far more than anyone else could... so for me the answer remains a resounding>


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Hahahahahahahahahaha fuck no.

I don't get why anybody would want to do it. The whole point of marrying someone is to have them exclusively to yourself and for them to have you to themself. At least, that's the way I see it. Now of course, when I marry a woman, I don't own her, and she doesn't own me. But I would never watch her have sex with another man or woman. If she wants to go have sex with other men, then there's really no point in us being married to each other. And vice versa. If I was going to go around fucking other women, I wouldn't marry someone. There's a reason that marriage is known as losing your freedom and/or being tied down. I'm a dominant kind of guy, and I take pride my things. Now, like I said before, my wife is not my possession, but she is MY wife, and I'm not going to let anybody else get anywhere near her V. The same goes for girlfriends and fiances.