I’m sure this has been asked before. I did a search but couldn’t find it so apologies if it’s being asked again.
I rarely watch porn but when I have I’ve always been confused as to why a guy takes his cock out of a girl’s mouth to finish himself off by hand, eventually coming on her tongue or face.
I can’t imagine why he would do that and I wouldn’t want him to, I want to feel him through my lips and tongue when he cums.
Is this for visual effect in porn or do guys really prefer doing this to coming in a girl’s mouth?
I much much prefer to come inside. Part of it may be the fact that I have what my wife refers to as an external vagina, by which she means that I have a lot of feminine emotional attributes despite being a dude. One of these attributes is that I'm not nearly as visual as most guys seem to be; I really like to hold her close and feel our bodies move in concert as I have my spasms, and I like to then lay inside her and just be together. The emotional connection of being physically synced during orgasm holds far more pleasure for me, and that heightens the physical sensations that just can't be matched by an image.
On a less-personal note, I believe that dudes in porn used to be paid by cumshot, which necessitated coming where the camera could see. Later on in porn's maturation, they expanded guys' roles into a little more than cum-factory, but really not that much, so the cumshot is still often a determinant of pay, which is why it's so commonly seen in porn. In real sex, I'm 100% sure it's a lot less common to ejaculate outside, but apparently some dudes love it.
It's mostly porn and mostly originated with porn, and I think porn has led to more and more people pulling out and ejaculating on the face or body. Personally, I like it much better to ejaculate inside the vagina, ass or mouth. But my wife and before her some old girlfriends did like for me to occasionally cum on their face, tits or ass. I don't mind doing that to please but doing it all the time I would not like.
It rather depends on the girl and the relationship.. With some woman I care greatly about.. hers to swallow. For a passing thing.. mark ones territory. Sort of a liquid graffiti.
It makes no erotic sense to me. The last thing I would want at that moment is to 'do it myself'. So whether it's internal, or a hand or blog job, I want her to bring my orgasm.
Kim,
I would much rather you make me cum in your mouth, I dont really get the other appeal other than maybe once in a while to cum other than inside your pussy or mouth mmmm
That annoys me too.
I've always hated that dumb aspect of 'visual' porn, whereby the director/producer seems to think the cumshot has to be visible.
There's so much more decent independent porn out on the web now than the crap boilerplate templates given to us since the 80s and 90s.
But to answer your question, I prefer to cum inside her mouth. If she can swallow most yet manage a discrete oral creampie at the same time then she's got real talent ;)
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I haven't read all the response so this may have already been said. Just a gimmick for the movies to show that the guy is actually cumming. Called the "money shot". I don't do it unless she asks for it. I always ask ahead or at least let her know I'm ready and let her say where. Just the polite thing to do.
It's not something I prefer to happen.
For me, the sensation of being brought to a climax when enveloped by a lady's mouth, pussy or other opening is far, far more sensually satisfying than teh sensation of using my hand, even with teh visual stimulation that accompanies it.
2 things about it. If i do it myself the last say 30 sec i can put the pressure and rythm just where it is best. The other thing is, Men are MUCH more visual oriented than women. It really really turns me on to see her take the cum, and most of all to see her WANT the cum.
I have never cum on a woman, only in her. And I generally prefer that though I suppose with the right moment, mood, and person I might enjoy creaming her tits.
I like my cum inside a woman. It's why God gave us entrances. And with sex, yes, they are all entrances.
I personally prefer coming inside her, no matter the hole she gives me. I've done it a few times where I shot my load on a pets breasts or ass, but I definitely prefer coming internally as opposed to externally...
Much rather shot inside. The clean-up twitches are great too.
Visual effect is what I believe. Feels so much better to cum inside if you ask me.
not all women like the taste of cum, if the lady says no then i respect that,if she doesn't well down the throat it goes
Guys are very visual and like watching the money shot. A woman looks very hot wearing it. It feels better to me to let her finish me off with her mouth. Spit or swallow is her choice.
I suppose it would have to do with a guy's preference. For some, the visual thing is a big turn on. For me, the preference is to do it with a partner, rather than on a partner.
Porn is like a surrealist show. There's not a lot of real pleasure in those money shots.
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My life has no meaning, no direction, no aim. No purpose. But I'm happy. I can't wrap my head around this. What the fuck am I doing right?
Visual effect.
I have never wanted to pull out and watch myself cum so I dont really understand it. I have seen a few porns where they cum inside and then show you. I prefer those. There are some good ones out there, but I much prefer to cum INSIDE.
and I just love watching that intensity of my man furiously jerking, letting his orgasm burst onto me .... it's like winning a jackpot! 
