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Do guys really fall in love or is all just lust.

We guys are quite capable of both and .



Sometimes, we even manage to feel both for the same person.

The problem comes when we love one person, and lust for another (or two).
Well Leiza this one does,twice before,and now on the verge of the third.The second at first sight,the latest,at second sight.But then I am only an old romantic.
I've been in love 3 times 2 of which didn't work out. Once for just over a year and the other ended in divorce. Many many times in the state of lust. Finally found true love. 24 years now.
I have to believe I could fall in love, & have long thought reason I didn't growing up was b/c I am good guy (in all ways imaginable, I'd say), & peers were into "bad boys"...However, yet to have divorce, dump, or date. In words of Randy Newman, "I could be wrong, but I don't think so...".
Quote by Leiza350
Do guys really fall in love or is all just lust.



Are you asking if males are genuinely capable of falling in love?

I often lurk in the ask-the-guys forum without saying much but the mere concept that men, for some reason, don't or can't love as often as women do is a shocking concept. Maybe you've had a bad end to a relationship and are just emotionally tanked? But there's never any reason to doubt men want and need love - of course they do.
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Are you asking if males are genuinely capable of falling in love?

I often lurk in the ask-the-guys forum without saying much but the mere concept that men, for some reason, don't or can't love as often as women do is a shocking concept. Maybe you've had a bad end to a relationship and are just emotionally tanked? But there's never any reason to doubt men want and need love - of course they do.


I GENUINELY / SINCERELY thank you, Metilda, for this comment. Some of us guys are capable of real hurt / pain from "love" that has gone wrong ... maybe even to the point of not ever wanting or allowing "love" to touch us again.
Men absolutely fall in love.
Boys just think they do.

I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?

Of course we do. Don't assume that all guys are exactly the same even if your experience makes it seem otherwise.
Quote by hopp3r
Men absolutely fall in love.
Boys just think they do.


The movie title got it right for both genders... Men fall in love & go crazy, while women think they do when they've really just become stupid.