Older men, younger women

Quote by Roughgentleman
Age is a major factor in the interests of any individual. But outside of the physical, age is really only a proxy for experiences. It can be a very poor proxy for experiences. Perspective adds another dimension to experience. Perspective comes from gender, upbringing, culturalization, education, etc. Given all this it is not surprising that older men who grew up in a more sexually repressed time are curious about the experiences of young women who enjoy spending time on lush. I will leave it to the young ladies as to why some are attracted to older men...maybe because of curiosity about their more worldly experience? Personally women of any (legal) age who like chatting on a site like lush are attractive to me. There is so much sexual repression in our society that talking to others that have or are trying to escape it is refreshing.

Quote by Green_Man
Just as an observation, studies have shown that women commonly reach their sexual peak in their thirties, while men more often reach theirs around eighteen. I don't disagree with these statistics. I think I reached my peak about that time. However, for me I don't notice that the peak ever really went down all that much. I've retained virtually the same amount of interest over the years.

One thing to take away from this observation, though, is often older men are attracted to younger women who have not reached their pinnacle of sexual needs, while young ladies are attracted to men who may be losing their urges. In an ideal world the ladies in their thirties and forties would be having fun with those young fellows just reaching their twenties.

Quote by todream65
In my case, I'm married to a woman who is 9 years older than I. Our sex life was great until she developed diabetes, primarily due to her ethnic heritage. Over time, her drive decreased, and due to some fluke, when we do have sex, she would have a UTI a few days later. And yes, she cleans herself after the sex, but still get an infection. However, it's every older man's dream to have a younger woman because she is supposed to be more sexually active, as many have already stated here. I'd rather have a woman for her brain, the ability to carry on a decent conversation, instead of just good looks. They say the brain is the biggest sex organ of the human body.

Quote by Green_Man
Just as an observation, studies have shown that women commonly reach their sexual peak in their thirties, while men more often reach theirs around eighteen. I don't disagree with these statistics. I think I reached my peak about that time. However, for me I don't notice that the peak ever really went down all that much. I've retained virtually the same amount of interest over the years.

One thing to take away from this observation, though, is often older men are attracted to younger women who have not reached their pinnacle of sexual needs, while young ladies are attracted to men who may be losing their urges. In an ideal world the ladies in their thirties and forties would be having fun with those young fellows just reaching their twenties.