Older men, younger women

31 Dec 2017

I kind of already know the answer to this, but I want to see what you guys think. I get a lot of guys in their 50s and 60s here on Lush wanting me, many have daughters my age. When I ask them about the available women in their forties and fifties, they give me a whole bunch of, to me, shitty reasons for wanting us young women in our early twenties. Why is that? Mid-life crisis shit? Not complaining, just wondering. Enlighten me. Thanks!! smile

1 Jan 2018

The reason any man wants any woman (or other man, for that matter) has to do with what they find sexually attractive. For some men that is simply younger women. Not too complex. In most parts of our western society it is frowned upon for older men to be seen sniffing around younger women or girls. Unless they happen to be rich and/or powerful. But doing it online is certainly allowed and men respond here and other online sites. As to why younger women attract so many men, that would be more difficult to answer.

1 Jan 2018

well im 55now, jeezus im getting old., haha, well when I was about 47 I dated a younger girl, she was 22, , stunningly gorgous. all the right bits in all the right places, nothing heading south, , what was not to like, , ok to look at, fantazise about, dream about, , young ladies are wonderfull. but for me the age difference ruined it , we had absolutely nothing in common, nothing to chat about, , so for a week or two things where ok , but theres nothing there to base a relationship on, , ok if its just sex and 2 people are happy with that then go for it, but for me. any relationship needs communication. , suppose I might be a little old fashioned, so now while the younger fairer sex are pretty to look at, il stick to ladies my own age..

1 Jan 2018

All of the women I know and work with who are in their 50s and 60s prefer younger men (ie men under 40) They rarely if ever get them. I like looking at younger women (I'm 52) because I find the younger female body beautiful to look at and fantasize about. But would I really like a relationship with a 25 year old with whom I have little if nothing in common, honestly, no.

To answer your question, you're hot and I'd say any man on here, irrespective of age, would like to get to know you.

btw What do you mean by 'wanting you' ? In their dreams perhaps.

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1 Jan 2018

Quote by georgiagirl23
I kind of already know the answer to this, but I want to see what you guys think. I get a lot of guys in their 50s and 60s here on Lush wanting me, many have daughters my age. When I ask them about the available women in their forties and fifties, they give me a whole bunch of, to me, shitty reasons for wanting us young women in our early twenties. Why is that? Mid-life crisis shit? Not complaining, just wondering. Enlighten me. Thanks!!

I never had or pursued a sexual relationship with someone who could be my daughter, but I think it would really boost my ego if a lady in her twenties or early thirties showed sexual interest in me. It would make feel very alive and probably a little proud that I'm not to old yet. I think that might be one of the main reasons for other older men too.

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1 Jan 2018

Quote by georgiagirl23
I kind of already know the answer to this, but I want to see what you guys think. I get a lot of guys in their 50s and 60s here on Lush wanting me, many have daughters my age. When I ask them about the available women in their forties and fifties, they give me a whole bunch of, to me, shitty reasons for wanting us young women in our early twenties. Why is that? Mid-life crisis shit? Not complaining, just wondering. Enlighten me. Thanks!!

Afraid I can't help you. I don't restrict myself to women half my age. In fact, I'm less likely to approach a young woman, if only because we are likely to have little in common.

1 Jan 2018

well, I am a 50 year old guy, and quite honestly, I appreciate and love a lady in the 40's on up. What I think the biggest difference is today, it education. Do not get me wrong, a young lady is still hot. But a lady who is in 40's on up, is more in tune with her orgasms and body. However, the younger ladies are more informed with what turns them on and what they are willing to do/try.

2 Jan 2018

I think it's an ego thing. For an older guy to attract a younger woman gives him confidence. Personally, I dated a young woman who was 8 years younger than me. We had nothing in common and it was a relief when it ended. I would much rather have someone closer to my age.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by Green_Man
The reason any man wants any woman (or other man, for that matter) has to do with what they find sexually attractive. For some men that is simply younger women. Not too complex. In most parts of our western society it is frowned upon for older men to be seen sniffing around younger women or girls. Unless they happen to be rich and/or powerful. But doing it online is certainly allowed and men respond here and other online sites. As to why younger women attract so many men, that would be more difficult to answer.

As to why younger women attract so many men, that would be more difficult to answer....I understand the older men liking the fresh look and hard body of us younger women, but many older women look really hot nowadays! Is it because they have 'too much baggage?' That's one explanation I've been given.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by abitshyone
well im 55now, jeezus im getting old., haha, well when I was about 47 I dated a younger girl, she was 22, , stunningly gorgous. all the right bits in all the right places, nothing heading south, , what was not to like, , ok to look at, fantazise about, dream about, , young ladies are wonderfull. but for me the age difference ruined it , we had absolutely nothing in common, nothing to chat about, , so for a week or two things where ok , but theres nothing there to base a relationship on, , ok if its just sex and 2 people are happy with that then go for it, but for me. any relationship needs communication. , suppose I might be a little old fashioned, so now while the younger fairer sex are pretty to look at, il stick to ladies my own age..

I find it easy to talk to older men, especially on Lush, but in real life, I have run into the 'what do we talk about' after a little while thing. Like everything's different, our upbringing, our lifestyles, our music, etc.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by Piquet
All of the women I know and work with who are in their 50s and 60s prefer younger men (ie men under 40) They rarely if ever get them. I like looking at younger women (I'm 52) because I find the younger female body beautiful to look at and fantasize about. But would I really like a relationship with a 25 year old with whom I have little if nothing in common, honestly, no.

To answer your question, you're hot and I'd say any man on here, irrespective of age, would like to get to know you.

btw What do you mean by 'wanting you' ? In their dreams perhaps.

By wanting me, I meant fuck me!

4 Jan 2018

Quote by patokl

I never had or pursued a sexual relationship with someone who could be my daughter, but I think it would really boost my ego if a lady in her twenties or early thirties showed sexual interest in me. It would make feel very alive and probably a little proud that I'm not to old yet. I think that might be one of the main reasons for other older men too.

I know some women my age that have gone for older men. A lot of it seems to be because they have financial resources, can buy them things, take them on trips to nice places, etc.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by TheUprightMan

Afraid I can't help you. I don't restrict myself to women half my age. In fact, I'm less likely to approach a young woman, if only because we are likely to have little in common.

Got that!! Thanks!

4 Jan 2018

Quote by centillini
well, I am a 50 year old guy, and quite honestly, I appreciate and love a lady in the 40's on up. What I think the biggest difference is today, it education. Do not get me wrong, a young lady is still hot. But a lady who is in 40's on up, is more in tune with her orgasms and body. However, the younger ladies are more informed with what turns them on and what they are willing to do/try.

Yes, and most of us if we're in good shape, I'd think would have more energy in bed.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by Fritz2011
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Some of it has to do with a man thinking a younger woman is fresh ands happy with life, not weighed down with past relationships and difficult times. And I guess a woman in her late teens and twenties looks, physically, like she hasn't had disappointments.

I think that younger women are often viewed as very sweet and nice, sometimes eager to please. From my experience knowing them as friends, that often is my impression.

Both of my girlfriends were 10 years younger than me when I was with them. One was 18 and was really much too young to have any boyfriend, particularly not me. The other was 30 and had had some hard times in life, and I wasn't really able to make her feel happier.

Many women in their 40s and 50s are just plain gorgeous and I would love to date them. But most of them are married by then, or, worse, divorced and not wanting to take another chance on love.

I don't want to give up on taking a chance on love, but honestly I don't see a lot of women my age at all and none who are single and who want to date.

gotcha! Thank u! smile

4 Jan 2018

Unless a young woman is exceptional, I generally don't friend anyone under 30. You happen to be one of those.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by georgiagirl23

I know some women my age that have gone for older men. A lot of it seems to be because they have financial resources, can buy them things, take them on trips to nice places, etc.

Yeah, I see that happening too. I don't think I'd be happy with woman who chose me for my financial resources, . And though age is just a number and I'd be immensely flattered, if some of 30 years younger or more fell for me, I probably would not start a relationship with such a big age gap (unless of course she's extremely rich and I'm the younger one evil4

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4 Jan 2018

I've never understood this either. Most women my age or younger are idiots. I'm guessing it has something to do with menopause. Most middle age+ women start losing their sex drive while men still act like horny bulls. Young women don't have that issue yet so their sex drive still has the key in the ignition.

But that's all guess work. My wife is 46 and I'm 30 so we did it the other way

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4 Jan 2018

This thread is about "wanting" someone. That is a lot simpler than enjoying someone's conversation, liking to share rooting for the home team, chatting about favorite lines from well-loved books, etc. Again, if you are wondering why someone "wants" you, sexually, then it is because they find you attractive. If it is really of importance to you then examine all the others that they find attractive. You might see a pattern. Perhaps not. But, I bet, if you watch who they smile at the most, and who they want to be close to physically, and who they laugh with most often, then you will know who they find attractive.

They might not be honest in conversation, but in their actions they will reveal themselves. You might even examine yourself, critically, and see what you really find attractive. I know what turns me on. After all these years that is explicitly clear to me.

4 Jan 2018

Quote by georgiagirl23
I kind of already know the answer to this, but I want to see what you guys think. I get a lot of guys in their 50s and 60s here on Lush wanting me, many have daughters my age. When I ask them about the available women in their forties and fifties, they give me a whole bunch of, to me, shitty reasons for wanting us young women in our early twenties. Why is that? Mid-life crisis shit? Not complaining, just wondering. Enlighten me. Thanks!!

im 34 and want you. you're a very sexy wo,man who happens to be smart and funny too. whats not to like.

4 Jan 2018

Wendy, you must realise that there's not many vintage ladies that can strike a 'Yoga Pose' (Your Gallery #5).

Little wonder some people seek the nimble nymphs to satisfy their basic urges.

5 Jan 2018

not sure I understand why you wouldn't be considered attractive by anyone, much less older guys like me. You're beautiful, college educated, obviously somewhat naughty for even being on lush, you like football, you're a self proclaimed "very bad girl" when it's the right person...whether you're 23 or 46, who wouldn't be interested? I'm sure you'll have this problem for the rest of your life smile

6 Jan 2018

Quote by 69Kisses96
Unless a young woman is exceptional, I generally don't friend anyone under 30. You happen to be one of those.

Should I feel honored? ;)

6 Jan 2018

Quote by patokl

Yeah, I see that happening too. I don't think I'd be happy with woman who chose me for my financial resources, . And though age is just a number and I'd be immensely flattered, if some of 30 years younger or more fell for me, I probably would not start a relationship with such a big age gap (unless of course she's extremely rich and I'm the younger one )

Haha...good one! smile

6 Jan 2018

Quote by coryA
I've never understood this either. Most women my age or younger are idiots. I'm guessing it has something to do with menopause. Most middle age+ women start losing their sex drive while men still act like horny bulls. Young women don't have that issue yet so their sex drive still has the key in the ignition.

But that's all guess work. My wife is 46 and I'm 30 so we did it the other way

You did! I'm 23 and bf is 27.

6 Jan 2018

Quote by Green_Man
This thread is about "wanting" someone. That is a lot simpler than enjoying someone's conversation, liking to share rooting for the home team, chatting about favorite lines from well-loved books, etc. Again, if you are wondering why someone "wants" you, sexually, then it is because they find you attractive. If it is really of importance to you then examine all the others that they find attractive. You might see a pattern. Perhaps not. But, I bet, if you watch who they smile at the most, and who they want to be close to physically, and who they laugh with most often, then you will know who they find attractive.

They might not be honest in conversation, but in their actions they will reveal themselves. You might even examine yourself, critically, and see what you really find attractive. I know what turns me on. After all these years that is explicitly clear to me.

Thank u! Insightful!!

6 Jan 2018

Quote by georgiagirl23

Should I feel honored? ;)

Only you can decide that. I know that I do.

6 Jan 2018

Age is a major factor in the interests of any individual. But outside of the physical, age is really only a proxy for experiences. It can be a very poor proxy for experiences. Perspective adds another dimension to experience. Perspective comes from gender, upbringing, culturalization, education, etc. Given all this it is not surprising that older men who grew up in a more sexually repressed time are curious about the experiences of young women who enjoy spending time on lush. I will leave it to the young ladies as to why some are attracted to older men...maybe because of curiosity about their more worldly experience? Personally women of any (legal) age who like chatting on a site like lush are attractive to me. There is so much sexual repression in our society that talking to others that have or are trying to escape it is refreshing.

6 Jan 2018

Just as an observation, studies have shown that women commonly reach their sexual peak in their thirties, while men more often reach theirs around eighteen. I don't disagree with these statistics. I think I reached my peak about that time. However, for me I don't notice that the peak ever really went down all that much. I've retained virtually the same amount of interest over the years.

One thing to take away from this observation, though, is often older men are attracted to younger women who have not reached their pinnacle of sexual needs, while young ladies are attracted to men who may be losing their urges. In an ideal world the ladies in their thirties and forties would be having fun with those young fellows just reaching their twenties.

6 Jan 2018

In my case, I'm married to a woman who is 9 years older than I. Our sex life was great until she developed diabetes, primarily due to her ethnic heritage. Over time, her drive decreased, and due to some fluke, when we do have sex, she would have a UTI a few days later. And yes, she cleans herself after the sex, but still get an infection. However, it's every older man's dream to have a younger woman because she is supposed to be more sexually active, as many have already stated here. I'd rather have a woman for her brain, the ability to carry on a decent conversation, instead of just good looks. They say the brain is the biggest sex organ of the human body.