But I do believe in treating each other with respect and sharing costs.
I love to buy my friends presents and treat them to things like lunch or a beer (very difficult due to my present work situation, but I do what I can), but I hate for them to do the same for me. I feel really bad that they would spend their money on me, and I have to tell myself that it's my opportunity to let them be happy the way I am happy when my friends let me spend money on them.
In all fairness, I don't know anything about being in a relationship (although many of my girl mates think the lad should pay and treat them all the time) and I wondered, what do you guys think about a lass wanting to pay her own way, or at least alternate the costs of trips/meals, etc? Lasses can feel free to answer too, if they want.
Thank you in advance.
