Or is it something deeper and a more loving connection?
Short answer for me would be..."Mental connection". Beyond that, I would have to do some "intense" thinking.
Have a good one!!
Rick
Being that I am married a mental connection is a given. My choice above is most likely activity to raise the bar from a typical orgasm.
a blow job done with affection and talent is number one , but a hand job with a little lube is fantastic also.