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What Makes "Beautiful"?

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I don't tend to look at people the way others do, physically or non-physically.

I can look at a lass or lad and "judge" them physically as the general commercial world would judge her, as to whether they are "beautiful" or not. But I often see things beyond what many do, I often find attraction towards peoples looks that others are scathing about. I think the human body is such a wonderful, amazing thing, and I love the variation, the forms and lines that can be so different from the next, and features of a person's face that spark up something within my brain that tells me that's attractive.

If I had to pick a guy's body type I like, it would be one with broad shoulders, who really likes his food. I find hard lumpy bumpy tummy muscles quite a bit of a turn-off.

And physically, other than that, that's about it. I have just narrowed my whole view of what I find attractive into one tiny aspect of a man.

Some people other find annoying or stand-offish, I can often see a bit deeper into them and read them slightly better. I can find greater strength of character than often others bother to look for. It just means, I think, I take a bit more time over a person and my interactions with them than a lot of my friends do.

For me, it is a combination of things that truly makes "beautiful", not just the instant "PHWOAR Factor". But somebody I found beautiful could have those bumpy muscles, and I would love it just as much, because they would be part of the whole - beauty for me is a multi-faceted thing, bringing together the less favourable parts to be just as attractive because they are part of the whole.

I was wondering, how do you guys view "beautiful"? Is it a nice ass (or face, or other body part) and forget the rest? And single look and you instantly know beauty? Or is it the whole physical package? Or, is it in different forms, and is more emotional, something that takes time to discover? Or can it be a combination?

Have you found your view of "beautiful" has changed with your age and/or experience?

I know it's a girly question, but I'd like to know what you guys think about it, please?

Thank you in advance for reading, and, hopefully, sharing, and I hope I haven't confuzzled you.
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I think how you feel about someone emotionally can strongly affect whether or not you find them beautiful. I can appreciate when someone is attractive or "hot" but the only people I have considered truly "beautiful" are those who I really do like as people as well. Someone who isn't so conventionally good-looking can be infinitely more beautiful than the most perfectly-formed woman in existence.

I hate to bring out the old 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'-cliché but... I think you look at someone differently when you actually feel something about them. It's almost like their "inner beauty" shines through.

Physically, I think you 'see' beauty in the face; in particular, the eyes. When you look deep into their eyes and think, "Wow, they're beautiful," that's when you know.
Beauty is in the attitude. I agre with the previous post, its about they eyes. They speak to the attitude of the person. I dont like shallow, shifty, or weak. Deep, intelligent and confident. Not agressive, just confident.
Thank you for answering, lads.
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I think most people are initially attracted by physical beauty honestly. I personally like a combination of both inner and outer beauty but if I had to choose I would take inner beauty everytime. You can be the most beautiful person on the outside and be the ugliest person inside and that person to me is just plain ugly through and through.
Veni, vidi, vici" Julius Caesar 47 BC
There are just so many ways to be beautiful that I can't narrow it down to a useful answer. Sorry.
To me beautiful is never one specific attribute.. it can never be only about figure, face, character or personality. To me beautiful is how everything that is a woman comes together and interacts with me.

Going beyond that; what I find beautiful in one person might even strike me as unattractive in another, because it does not go well with the rest of that person's characteristics.

Having said that I think everyone has an "archetype" of beautiful, a fantasy of what their ultimate match should be like; however.... how well we really know ourselves, and how well we can express what we feel freed of even our own unconscious prejudice is another matter altogether