Ok so here is the story. Just got back from taking a 6 day cruise. Met a beautiful woman and we hit it off. OK this is my story so I am telling it the way I see it. I gave her my contact information and she expressed that she would like to keep in touch after the cruise ended. That was Saturday. I haven't heard from her. Should I just write this off to an "on board romance" or should I try to find her?
I have enough bread crumbs that she gave me to find her with a little effort. What are your thoughts?
More to the story. I am divorced and did not go looking for romance on this cruise. I was open to the fact of an on board romance / affair but I did not expect to "Fall" for someone.
Your honest opinions are appreciated.
Holden
Go for it. There may be a reason for her delayed action. If nothing positive happens you have only wasted a small amount of time and you have nothing to lose. If there is no response then you can shrug it off - but if you leave it you will always wonder. Also she may be thinking the same thing ''Why hasn't he contacted me?''
Dude, you're supposed to get her contact information, not dump yours on her and hope she does the work for you. Strap on a pair and be courageous. You're the man! Seriously, watch Kate and Leopold - good movie, great advice.
If she didn't give you her contact details, I'd leave it. Her saying she'd otherwise like to keep in touch smacks of a polite brush off to me.
Then again, my wife's saying it's probably all right, especially if she lost your details. At least see out the rest of the week before dropping a non-stalkerish Facebook PM. If she's into you, she'll be tickled, and if she's not, well you're fucked anyway.
But next time, get her number. And watch that movie!
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. Wilful is pretty much on the money but if you have some "bread crumbs" to follow or can connect via social media, a soft follow-up to see if there is interest can't hurt. "Had a great time. Hope you did, too." type of thing to remind her that you exist and maybe twig her to the contact info. I wouldn't push harder, though, unless you get a positive response.
If you have some breadcrumbs to follow there's no harm in looking her up online for your own curiosity... but no way no how should you try contacting her that way. I'm guessing most would consider that kinda stalker-ish... i.e. don't use a contact method that she hasn't specifically given to you... IMO if you have any chance with this continuing you'll blow it by doing that.
You basically put the ball in her court.. so you gotta let her play and see if she wants to get in touch with you.
Remember when you get off a cruise there is a ton of real life to deal with.. laundry to do and work to get back to.. so maybe she's just busy and/or waiting for the right moment to contact you.
I'd definitely give it an additional week before calling it one of those "what happens on the boat stays on the boat" things.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
You could follow those breadcrumbs until they lead you to her, and then follow her, secretly, for awhile. Women love to be followed everywhere. Try snapping some pictures of her while she's not looking so you can surprise her with them later as a cum tribute. Then find out where she lives, and hide naked in her bushes outside the front door masturbating furiously. Then when you're ready to take your relationship to the next level, break into her house and steal her panties like she stole your heart. Don't forget to leave your cum-tributed clandestine snapshots in their place...
Or, you know, don't do any of those things because it would make you a weird creepy fucking stalker. Just let it be, dude.
Don't believe everything that you read.
Has this person deliberately left a trail of breadcrumbs for you to follow?
Do they really want you to find them?
There is always the thrill of the chase where they make life really 'Hard' for you.
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
But then she may be getting her affairs in order before making a decision.
The saga could well make a great story for 'Lush'.
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
Give her some time to respond first. If she doesn't and you do know how to find her, send her just one message and make it clear you won't bother her again if she's not interested.
And don't listen to ancient nonsense that it's a man's job to get the woman's address instead of the other way around. It's 2017 for crying out loud.
=== Not ALL LIVES MATTER until BLACK LIVES MATTER ===
go for it ..you should visit her place if you have her address . phone contact did'nt work.
