Active Ink Slinger
Not into any kind of restraints / bondage ... either having it done to me or doing it to someone else.
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Would you let yourself be tied up during sex?
Active Ink Slinger
Been both tiee and tier. Enjoyed both.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, but only because I think of myself as a modern day Harry Houdini at times. I would try to magically escape and try not to yell, "ta da" afterwards.
Active Ink Slinger
this is something i would like to try.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by FirstBlush
Very eager to try it, both the giving and receiving! BF would never go for the receiving end so I have to dream about it.
I have never let anyone tie me up, etc. But I would for you....no joke.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes I would if she is imaginative 
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
Active Ink Slinger
Yes, one of the hottest times I had was when old gf would tie me up and take control
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Sure, if she wanted to. Not really my thing, but I would.
I was once tied up, and all I could think was, "She sure is hot, I wish I wasn't tied up."
I was once tied up, and all I could think was, "She sure is hot, I wish I wasn't tied up."
I have, but it never really felt secure. Been tied and blindfolded to a bed, but the knots were not good and after about 5 minutes I could have slipped out easily. Same with a blindfold, quick wiggle of the head and rub it on the pillow or mattress and I could have it off, or it would slip,and I would be able to see.
I end up lying there holding onto the bed frame and close sing my eyes, simulating restraint but not actually. The idea of being at someone else's whim seems great but the practicalitys in my experience have not yet lived up to it.
We've tried the handcuffs from a sex shop, they all have safety release catches on them, or off such poor quality they break within seconds.
I end up lying there holding onto the bed frame and close sing my eyes, simulating restraint but not actually. The idea of being at someone else's whim seems great but the practicalitys in my experience have not yet lived up to it.
We've tried the handcuffs from a sex shop, they all have safety release catches on them, or off such poor quality they break within seconds.
Advanced Wordsmith
Yes, and love it. Naturally, it depends very much on the partner - the trust and imagination you share.
Active Ink Slinger
Not a chance.
Active Ink Slinger
i think that is a requirement
Advanced Wordsmith
I have thoroughly enjoyed giving up control to a woman on several occasions. Each time has been a unique experience. My favorite has to be my most recent as it also included a collar and a leash...and some naughtiness that I never before thought would be enjoyable. When she tied my hands behind my back, collared & leashed both my neck and my cock/balls and then pulled my face into her recently fucked pussy (by another man) and fed me his creamy markings, I was never more aroused and excited.
It was amazing being hard, helpless and exposed. I also loved being "trained" to be more than I thought I could ever be.
It was amazing being hard, helpless and exposed. I also loved being "trained" to be more than I thought I could ever be.
Mana wahine
Hell yeah. 10 out of 10, yes. And also to turn the tables at some point and tie my partner up. #equality
Quote by x_pac6969
Something id like to try.My partner is not that interested in being tied up or tying me up.About all TRUSt is the utmost importance in this sort of actions
When my wife and I first got together, she told me she would like to tie me up and play.
I told her, she didn't need to tie me up because I would be willing to let her do anything she wanted me to.
I wish I had said, let's do it!
Active Ink Slinger
Not on a first date, No. If I trust them completely, yes.
Active Ink Slinger
Only if you trust them completely? C'mon guys... Then there's no thrill in not knowing what will happen next.
In order to completely have control taken away from you the option of GIVING control to someone else is taken off the table.
If you want to experience the absolute thrill of being yanked out of your comfort zone and having fear and uncertainty rule your emotions and thoughts then you don't GIVE control to someone else.
When you wake up with the feeling that something isn't quite right and you quickly discover that you are handcuffed and manacled and completely naked and exposed with someone that leans over and hoarsely whispers in your ear that they're going to make you their bitch, then you know the fear and the true surrender as your masculinity is yanked from you like candy from a baby and you're meat to be used and abused.
You and only you are the focus of being beaten and humiliated. You and only you are the object of someone's desire to finally be the boss with absolute authority. The one that handcuffed you is feeling the power they've never before had and it's a heady and exhilarating feeling of finally acquiring that dream situation where they can get back at you for all the times you made them feel helpless and inferior....
It can sometimes take a long time for you to completely surrender as all thoughts of you controlling the situation and getting what you really want slowly melt away and as you become totally submissive.
When you finally arrive at total surrender, then and only then can you experience the feeling of being truly dominated when your only desire is to please your captor and the only sounds you can make are mewling....
You will be dominated and you will be used for someone else's pleasure and guess what? You have a hard on reading this don't you? ;)
In order to completely have control taken away from you the option of GIVING control to someone else is taken off the table.
If you want to experience the absolute thrill of being yanked out of your comfort zone and having fear and uncertainty rule your emotions and thoughts then you don't GIVE control to someone else.
When you wake up with the feeling that something isn't quite right and you quickly discover that you are handcuffed and manacled and completely naked and exposed with someone that leans over and hoarsely whispers in your ear that they're going to make you their bitch, then you know the fear and the true surrender as your masculinity is yanked from you like candy from a baby and you're meat to be used and abused.
You and only you are the focus of being beaten and humiliated. You and only you are the object of someone's desire to finally be the boss with absolute authority. The one that handcuffed you is feeling the power they've never before had and it's a heady and exhilarating feeling of finally acquiring that dream situation where they can get back at you for all the times you made them feel helpless and inferior....
It can sometimes take a long time for you to completely surrender as all thoughts of you controlling the situation and getting what you really want slowly melt away and as you become totally submissive.
When you finally arrive at total surrender, then and only then can you experience the feeling of being truly dominated when your only desire is to please your captor and the only sounds you can make are mewling....
You will be dominated and you will be used for someone else's pleasure and guess what? You have a hard on reading this don't you? ;)
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
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No... that would make me anxious.
Active Ink Slinger
Yes and blindfolded..