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Would you let yourself be tied up during sex?

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When i first became introduced to D/s i was willing to try most anything ... the joy and thrill i got from equating my willingness to be used and to serve the desires of others were the motivation to have as few limits to searching for sexual and erotic pleasures. I did, howver, have a fe experiences while being tied up with rope that caused me to melt with fear and left "trigger" for panic attacks when it comes to being bound with rope. At this time i still feel nervous but can find a calm when using strpas or cuffs that can be released very quickly. If the dominant takes the time to actually show me that this can and will happen the i can proceed with just a small amount of fear.
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Or would you rather be the one doing the tying?

If you've tried it, did you enjoy?


I have tried tying a woman up and being tied up by a woman. I enjoyed both equally. However, the women I have been with have been much less aroused by tying me up and much less inclined to repeat it. I assume that is because their sexuality is tied to a paradigm that values male aggression and initiative.
only if I could get a good spanking!
Yes yes yes .... I would really like to try it, I do have a Dom/ Sub relationship
And I am starting to learn to trust him.. he is very patient with me...as I am new to this..... but oh god vi get so excited it's not funny..
I tried it once, I'm too dominant. However the gal was great at it, she had me cuffed to the bed. She would straddle my face and only let her pubes touch my nose. When I would try to force my lips onto hers, she would "punish" me. My cock was as hard as it has ever been!
Never. I like my hands free to have a good feel of her naked body.
I could never get my late wife to allow me to tie her up even after 15years of marriage.
My current partner has allowed me to tie her up to her 4 poster bed however we did have a safe word if she felt uncomfortable and one of the hand restraints was loosely tide so she could free her self.

Above all there has to be a lot of TRUST.
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Yes yes yes .... I would really like to try it, I do have a Dom/ Sub relationship
And I am starting to learn to trust him.. he is very patient with me...as I am new to this..... but oh god vi get so excited it's not funny..


Especially for Dee but others too.

To be bound and abused and humiliated can take you places you never dreamed existed.

So my answer is yes, yes OMG yes!

Especially with someone you are not sure that you can Trust completely.
Fuck yeah, I would.
Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes!



*Ahem

I mean... Umm... yeah. Maybe. Sure.

Nope. Can't say that my personality allows for that. Not comfortably and with pleasure. smile
Yes, I've been tied up before and it was quite exciting.
You'd have to be quick, or I'd have to be inebriated, and I might say no, but I could mean yes, maybe. Just be careful, if you are not quick enough, I might be the one doing the tying ;)
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I've never been tied up, but the idea sounds amazing!
I equally love being the one doing the tying and being tied.
I am not into being tied up. I like to be in charge and free to move about, no matter the kinky situation. If my wife wanted really bad to tie me up, I guess I'd let her. She's mentioned it as a possibility but never pushed to carry it through, though I'm sure at some point it will most likely to be on the agenda. So we'll see.

I've tied her up before at her request.
A definite YES. I love to be teased. It brings about the most powerful, sustained orgasm ever!
It would ne nice , just for a change to relinquish control .
Have done before. Not nearly as good as tying someone else up.
After watching the movie, 50 Shades of Grey (1 hour 25 minutes of wasted time), my wife and I decided to play games without the serious pain. She tied me to the bedposts with silk scarves and blindfolded me. The exciting thing was not knowing what was going to happen next. Would there be slight pain, food games (honey, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, etc.), or nothing but hot sex. It was fun. BTW, honey and chocolate syrup are a bitch to clean up! lol
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After watching the movie, 50 Shades of Grey (1 hour 25 minutes of wasted time), my wife and I decided to play games without the serious pain. She tied me to the bedposts with silk scarves and blindfolded me. The exciting thing was not knowing what was going to happen next. Would there be slight pain, food games (honey, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, etc.), or nothing but hot sex. It was fun. BTW, honey and chocolate syrup are a bitch to clean up! lol


Fun story! 50 Shades pretty much bored me to tears as well. The honey and chocolate syrup part reminds me of bailing out from 9-1/2 Weeks during the refrigerator scene. Cinema glitterati don't live in the real world of cleanup - or utility bills.
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Fun story! 50 Shades pretty much bored me to tears as well. The honey and chocolate syrup part reminds me of bailing out from 9-1/2 Weeks during the refrigerator scene. Cinema glitterati don't live in the real world of cleanup - or utility bills.


Thanks for your comment, it made me smile. The story is true. We have laughed about it many times since then, but there has been no repeat. Once is enough, plus the cleanup was a deterrent against a repeat. Never saw 9-1/2 weeks...I was 9 years old when that movie came out. I am not a fan of Kim Bassinger or Mickey Rourke, so I won't be viewing that movie any time soon.
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Thanks for your comment, it made me smile. The story is true. We have laughed about it many times since then, but there has been no repeat. Once is enough, plus the cleanup was a deterrent against a repeat. Never saw 9-1/2 weeks...I was 9 years old when that movie came out. I am not a fan of Kim Bassinger or Mickey Rourke, so I won't be viewing that movie any time soon.


You didn't miss anything. It was way before my time too but during the glory days of free Hulu, etc. I binge-watched films with a 'sexy' reputation and found they almost never lived up to the hype. Probably even enough to merit its own topic thread.

At least you ended up with a memorable story to share. Thanks!
Yes - bondage either way is a huge turn on for me. Love being tied up & teased - and returning the favour.
Being tied down I saw not my think. My wife likes it but not for me.
I'm ok with it. In my younger days 2-3 girls would tie my hands behind me so i could not touch myself while they showed me their tits, their hands in their panties teasing me as i watched. Sometimes i would cum without even being touched.
I've done it a couple times. But bondage isn't something I get off on.
No. I hate being restricted during sex.