I recently came across these terms which all mean the same thing, afaik. Not BDSM porn - more likewhat is encountered in real life. More caring, gentle, no pain, no degradation, etc
I realised that is what I am & never knew.
The best definition i have seen is given here: https://www.loveemmaaustin.com/latest-1/what-its-like-to-have-sex-with-a-pleasure-dom
Not sure this has been discussed before? Does anybody recognise these traits about themselves?