So, I'm looking for the benefit of everyone's expertise here.
I'm not either naturally dom or sub; I'm more the "cooperative" type. However, I recently got into a chat with a stunning friend whom I've been lusting after for quite a while. The text conversation went from "hi" to flirting to discussing how not-gentlemanly she would like me to be, in the space of about thirty delightful minutes, at her instigation.
Her schedule is really full, so it'll be a couple of weeks before we can actually get together in person, which is bad because I really want to spend some time with her, both clothed and otherwise, but is good because I need advice on how to dom someone who's really subby without being naturally dominant myself.
I have some fairly straightforward ideas (shibari, spanking, maybe tell her not to wax for a while beforehand and then wax her myself), but I need suggestions on (a) things to do with/on/to her and (b) how to present as dominant when I'm not.
She and I will be having at least one good long conversation about this, to give me some ideas of what she likes, but I'm also looking for advice from the site with the most sexpertise that I know.
Aaaaand ... go!
'tis himself!
