Cyber sex chat is not for me. I do have a big imagination but I want eye contact and want HIM to touch me, and I want to touch him, not just tell each other to touch ourselves. I know I’m probably outside the norm here, though. I need trust and an emotional connection, too. I’m not wired for detached casual sex—cyber or otherwise.
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I did some chatting back in the day, but not in a long time. Mostly with women on here using the old "black box" messages, but there was some on Chat, too. I find it hard to keep up, esp. on a phone keyboard so I am not a big fan. Still, it was kind of fun so I suppose if someone reached out and wanted to, I might give it another try. Not actively looking, though, at the moment.
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I did some chatting back in the day, but not in a long time. Mostly with women on here using the old "black box" messages, but there was some on Chat, too. I find it hard to keep up, esp. on a phone keyboard so I am not a big fan. Still, it was kind of fun so I suppose if someone reached out and wanted to, I might give it another try. Not actively looking, though, at the moment.
Same and I believe, if you see the doctor, you can get a pill to help with that. Beats the old match sticks.
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Cyber sex chat is not for me. I do have a big imagination but I want eye contact and want HIM to touch me, and I want to touch him, not just tell each other to touch ourselves. I know I’m probably outside the norm here, though. I need trust and an emotional connection, too. I’m not wired for detached casual sex—cyber or otherwise.
Yes, sex without a connection is just assisted masturbation - with a connection to the right person, it can be a shared pleasure. But obviously pales in comparison to flesh on flesh contact, desire & physical/emotional sensation
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I really enjoy naughty chat. Chatting provides me with insight into the erotic side of others.
I have a difficult time with individuals who are slow and/or simply not responsive. There have been just a handful that have been extraordinary…both imaginative and enthusiastic. What a sensual delight! There are few individuals that I would like to have some time with but I am very hesitant to ask.
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Same and I believe, if you see the doctor, you can get a pill to help with that. Beats the old match sticks.
Oh Lord, did I ever set myself up for that one. 🤣
On a difficult journey home, Kate finds love and sex in a fellow traveler.
And I first introduced Kate as a university student whose first time kind of sets the stage for her new story.
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Naughty chat?? Oh yes & with pictures
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It's the only reason I spend 12 hours a day here.
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I find most attempts to be one sided and often awkward. Enthusiasm and replicating what would happen in person is essential. I have only experienced two people on Lush and it was a delightful experience in both cases.
Unfortunately, the one-sided naughty convo often is the rule.
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Unfrotunately, the one-sided naughty convo often is the rule.
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Yes, and I honestly find written erotic content much more engaging that video form. Also, have really been enjoying just the audio lately.
I do think it's much harder to keep up than IRL dirty talk though. Really just have to find someone that you click with, and you both need to have imagination and be into the roleplay.
Anyways, I think I prefer it because most porn isn't really centered around women's pleasure or interests really. I mean, look at lesbian porn. It's not really for lesbians, it's made for men.
Women kind of made the written erotic form what it is today - I remember stealing my mom's stashed romance novels as a teenager 😸, that's where it really all started for a lot us - the bodice rippers.
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Sometimes it depends on who I am chatting with ☕️
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Of course I like it
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Gulp... very very nice indeed. I admit to being somewhat of a boob man. Coughs... wait... only on the ladies!
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Gulp... very very nice indeed. I admit to being somewhat of a boob man. Coughs... wait... only on the ladies!
I'm with you John, on all counts
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Gulp... very very nice indeed. I admit to being somewhat of a boob man. Coughs... wait... only on the ladies!
I'm not sure that is your best selfie John.
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I have to say that is an amazing likeness... could be my identical twin brother. I do however have shorter hair.
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I have to say that is an amazing likeness... could be my identical twin brother. I do however have shorter hair.
You can't see his......oh, THAT hair
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What is not to like about some "naughty chat"? It doesn't have to be directly sexual, but it does have to be coherent. Sometimes it is best to just talk about something rather than saying what you'd do. In my opinion, the gals are much better at this sort of thing. Illusion plays a big part here. Paraphrasing Sophia Loren, "It's 50% of what you've got, and 50% of what he THINKS you've got.