Quote by Whispered_Words
A playfully flirty message exchange with a likeminded soul to slowly ratchet up the temperature. If it works and both feel it then can be steamy, hot and sexy! 🔥
It certainly can be all of that.
If I'm talking to myself, sure. If not we need to know and trust each other without question, and that can take some time, especially if we only talk online. I'm a face to face communicator, and am adamant about finding a similarly minded partner to be completely honest and open with, who doesn't kink shame their partner. Definitely seen too much of that in my life.