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Gérard
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So I am trying something out and I want your opinions and experiences if you have ever tried it too.

I am staying away from any kind of sexual release or contact for a while now, while I continue to have stimulation throughout the day.

Being two weeks In already and I start to find it extremely difficult to keep but I love the effects that It has on body and mind.

Have you ever tried it? For how long, and how did you feel.

If anyone wants to know I can explain the reasons I'm doing this for.
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
ChuckEPoo
Chuckanator
Quote by Gérard
So I am trying something out and I want your opinions and experiences if you have ever tried it too.

I am staying away from any kind of sexual release or contact for a while now, while I continue to have stimulation throughout the day.

Being two weeks In already and I start to find it extremely difficult to keep but I love the effects that It has on body and mind.

Have you ever tried it? For how long, and how did you feel.

If anyone wants to know I can explain the reasons I'm doing this for.


Yup. In the army when in training and sharing a barracks with a hundred other guys. Quite frankly, I think they gave us something in our food or drink.
Guest
Lurker
After my husband died, I was VERY much abstaining! After a while, I really missed the intimacy, more than the sex. Then, after while longer, I really missed the sex too! Now, am happily fucking again
Unknown User
Quote by Gérard
So I am trying something out and I want your opinions and experiences if you have ever tried it too.

I am staying away from any kind of sexual release or contact for a while now, while I continue to have stimulation throughout the day.

Being two weeks In already and I start to find it extremely difficult to keep but I love the effects that It has on body and mind.

Have you ever tried it? For how long, and how did you feel.

If anyone wants to know I can explain the reasons I'm doing this for.


Wait 15 years. It gets easier.

Okay, not really, but I find I can last longer with no release than I did at your profile age or earlier.
Gérard
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Quote by seeker4


Wait 15 years. It gets easier.

Okay, not really, but I find I can last longer with no release than I did at your profile age or earlier.


Haha yeah I guess.
It's a matter of self control and mental strength, I am aiming at two months straight. I hope I can make it that far.
It's difficult but there are upsides to it plus I bet it will be greatly satisfying when it's over.
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
Beffer
Rainbow Warrior
Not willingly! When I was a teenager, and my parents discovered I was having sex, they grounded me for a year. When THEY weren't guarding me like hawks, they enlisted other family members to keep me chaste! If they could have found a chastity belt, they probably would have used THAT, but it was the most miserable year of my life!
Dani
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by Gérard
So I am trying something out and I want your opinions and experiences if you have ever tried it too.

I am staying away from any kind of sexual release or contact for a while now, while I continue to have stimulation throughout the day.

Being two weeks In already and I start to find it extremely difficult to keep but I love the effects that It has on body and mind.

Have you ever tried it? For how long, and how did you feel.

If anyone wants to know I can explain the reasons I'm doing this for.


What's your end goal, if you don't mind my asking?

"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
sprite
Her Royal Spriteness
self imposed abstenance? *looks at you in horror*

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
Gérard
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Quote by Dani


What's your end goal, if you don't mind my asking?


I don't mind at all.
My goal is to test my limits, to see how much control I can have over my body and my desires.

The secondary target has to do with my testosterone levels and my training, but I won't bore you with details on that.

Timewise the target I've set is two months.
Let's see how I do as after I discovered how my body woks I haven't gone further than a week.
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
Gérard
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Quote by BethanyFrasier
Not willingly! When I was a teenager, and my parents discovered I was having sex, they grounded me for a year. When THEY weren't guarding me like hawks, they enlisted other family members to keep me chaste! If they could have found a chastity belt, they probably would have used THAT, but it was the most miserable year of my life!


That Is brutal... I have never had to go that long.
For most people even if there is no sexual contact there is still self satisfaction.. I am trying to stay away from both for a while.
Let's just say it is very hard..
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
curvygalore
Bonnet Flaunter
Quote by Gérard


I don't mind at all.
My goal is to test my limits, to see how much control I can have over my body and my desires.

The secondary target has to do with my testosterone levels and my training, but I won't bore you with details on that.

Timewise the target I've set is two months.
Let's see how I do as after I discovered how my body woks I haven't gone further than a week.


An interesting experiment Gerard, and hope it beings good results re your feelings about your self control and your training.

I've had several long periods of abstinence, lasting some years, and to be honest I've never found it fulfilling in any way at all. I find that my sex drive and my creativity and general joie de vivre are closely related. But hey, we're all different. Good luck with your goals.
Gérard
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Quote by curvygalore


An interesting experiment Gerard, and hope it beings good results re your feelings about your self control and your training.

I've had several long periods of abstinence, lasting some years, and to be honest I've never found it fulfilling in any way at all. I find that my sex drive and my creativity and general joie de vivre are closely related. But hey, we're all different. Good luck with your goals.



Well desire without release is said to increase testosterone, I am not sure how it works with women.
For men increased testosterone means more strength and mental focus.

For my training the results are great I feel like an 18 yo boy again.

Bad thing is I also feel like a boy mentally which means the slightest hint of sexuality can turn me on to no end.
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
honeydipped
The Bee's Knees
i've abstained from sex (both with a partner and solo) once due to the side effects of a prescription drug. it didn't add anything to my life and i wound up finding an alternate med. i wish you luck with your goal though!

Say. Her. Name.
TrinityX
Chat Moderator
There was a time many years ago, that I fell into unintentional abstinence. It was the perfect storm and before I realized it, 6 months had gone by. Then it took another month to determine who would be the lucky one to welcome me back. Time flew by and I was unphased as I had not planned it in advance. However, deliberate denial...? Ummm, I don't think I would last very long and I cant think of a medical condition that would affect all 3 holes at once, so....
Gérard
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It has been one of the hardest things I have tried so far. Almost three weeks in..
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."
simplyjohn
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I will very likely get 'hammered' for this but to draw an analogy .. perhaps its like giving up smoking or alcohol in the sense that its 'hard' in the early days but as with many things with time that struggle/desire/want fades to the point that you accept it albeit perhaps reluctantly.

Never mind I have 2 of the 3 left. smile
Guest
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I only ever did ABSTINENCE once!

It was at (actually after...) a dinner party with my then GF and her friend, Sinead. My friend Paul had just come back from Prague and had bought me a bottle of the wormwood-flavoured hallucinogenic licquer... Liquid ACID, basically... We all ended up in the sack and...

xx SF

Nicola: "That's ABSINTHE you fucking idiot."

Me: "What's ABSTINENCE?"

Nicola: "..."
simplyjohn
Site administrator
Quote by stephanie

I only ever did ABSTINENCE once!

It was at (actually after...) a dinner party with my then GF and her friend, Sinead. My friend Paul had just come back from Prague and had bought me a bottle of the wormwood-flavoured hallucinogenic licquer... Liquid ACID, basically... We all ended up in the sack and...

xx SF

Nicola: "That's ABSINTHE you fucking idiot."

Me: "What's ABSTINENCE?"

Nicola: "..."


omfg ... you do make me hoot with *most* of your posts.

and I had to google absinthe.
Guest
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Quote by sprite
self imposed abstenance? *looks at you in horror*


I wonder how Sprite would watch at me, when she knows I am like the virgin movie. And yes, I am embarrassed to be that

I know that Gerard will find new sensations and I am sure that when he begins again, sex will be very different.
Gérard
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Quote by Gael


I wonder how Sprite would watch at me, when she knows I am like the virgin movie. And yes, I am embarrassed to be that

I know that Gerard will find new sensations and I am sure that when he begins again, sex will be very different.


Now I believe that as well. Most people think it's ridiculous that I am forcing myself through this but I think the reward will be worth it.
"If it doesn't leave you breathless, sweaty and ready to fade, it's just not worth doing."