I know there's always judging on individual merit, but sometimes do we impose stricter rules of selection on one gender more than the other? And of course, why?
Perhaps some of us are just more inclined towards one sex than the other. This could manifest in our having (had) more partners/encounters with women than men, and vice versa. But perhaps such a surface observation is really due to something else like culture, opportunity, etc.
I'd love to hear your thoughts.x
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Bisexuals: Are you more selective of your male/female partners?
Her Royal Spriteness
it's changed over the years. when i first became sexually active, it was all guys. i really had no idea i was into girls at all. that changed one night with a specific girl. she opened up my world to the possibility that i was bi. to be honest, i wasn't suddenly into girls, but i was into her. after we broke up, it was mostly back to guys. i liked guys, but the seed was planted and, like i said, i was open to the idea of other girls now. i found myself comfortable flirting with both sexes and slowly, i found myself 'becoming bi'.
girls became someone to play with. my serious relationships were all male, but yeah, i found myself being drawn to other women more and more as time went by. and then... well, i fell head over heels for one particular woman and it changed - guys became someone to play with when i felt the need for cock, but that need became less and less.
at this point, i still consider myself to be bi - i am still attracted to men at times, but in practice, i mostly stick with other girls, one in particular. will that change again? no idea. as always, i am open to the possibility.
girls became someone to play with. my serious relationships were all male, but yeah, i found myself being drawn to other women more and more as time went by. and then... well, i fell head over heels for one particular woman and it changed - guys became someone to play with when i felt the need for cock, but that need became less and less.
at this point, i still consider myself to be bi - i am still attracted to men at times, but in practice, i mostly stick with other girls, one in particular. will that change again? no idea. as always, i am open to the possibility.
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Rainbow Warrior
I started out sexually with girls at almost the same time I did with guys, so I think I knew I was attracted to both sexes from the very beginning of my sexual awakening. I have had more guys than girls in bed, by about half again, but I don't usually fall in love with guys. I fall in love with other girls very easily however, and I always have. I've also discovered that I need both in my life, which has caused some problems when others I become sexually involved with, want to form a monogamous relationship with me. I have very distinct tastes in lovers, and always seem to go for the same 'type', both male and female. In fact, the more a guy is like a girl, both physically and emotionally, the more likely they are to find their way into my bed. Basically, I like guys for 'animal' sex, and girls for passion and intimacy, but I hold both to high standards, both physically and psychologically.
Active Ink Slinger
Really hard to say, sometimes very selective with either sex, and well, sometimes, any port in a storm.