So... I'm pretty casual about everything and something I find kinda funny is the...uhhh... slight hypocrisies of people on here. For instance, a lot of ladies get SO bent outta shape when others don't either read or pay attention to the info on their profiles. It is annoying though and I totally agree with them!
So, it more than cracks me up when I get hit up with a Chat Request while I'm in a ChatRoom and the person gets offended, slighted, pissed, or downright demeaning to me because I'm not into cybering much. I sometimes manage to be funny in the rooms, and then all of sudden I'm supposed to be Super Sexy Captain Cum Maker in a Private Chat..?.. errrr... if I claim to be the "Resident Idiot" in the ChatRooms, why the hell would you think I'm going to be any different in a Chat? ESPECIALLY when the first thing you say to me in that chat is: "You're funny!"
I say all of this really just to take a poll:
Is it rude to still be generally chatting around in a room when you have a Private Chat going?
Apparently, it is. I was just informed of this tonight. Which is funny, because I do this all the time and no one has ever seemed bothered or cared. The best part (and damn me for not having my Chats saved!) is the lady hit me up because she thought I was funny. Then when I maintained my usual jovial self in the Chat & ChatRoom - she became dissatisfied and ABRUPTLY switched gears, called me "rude", and then called me a "little boy".
...which is just awesome! I mean, I know the fellas on here never call out the ladies for being "teases", "bitches", "bitter old ladies" when they get turned down for chats. If someone's not into it, they're not into it - right? I know everyone simply respects that!
Look on the upside at least you found out what an uptight asshole she was BEFORE you added her as a friend (you didn't add her did you?)
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I honestly dont understand what it is you are asking. Your opening statement is different to the question in bold. So, with that said, I'll just say this. If someone has accepted a private chat box or are in a private chat room, that person deserves 100% of your attention, otherwise, you would just stay in the open chat rooms to talk if thats how you met. How needy is someone to engage in a private conversation and chat in the chat rooms with multiple people. To me, I think its a little on the rude side. And so what if you dont like to cyber. I dont think the conversation matter is relevant. If they head down that road and you are not ok with it, give them the option to change the subject or just say, sorry, Im not into that kind of thing and end the conversation. And if you turn them down to begin with, thats their problem. I have seen people cybering away (I understand you are not referring to that in this particular instance) in a private room and yet they are still hitting people up in the open rooms, and god knows what in private chat windows. To me, its slimy. If you are private with someone, I think you owe it to them to talk to just them.
