Deep throat - a learnt skill or natural ability?

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Unfortunately I've yet to experience the joy of a balls deep blowjob.

Do you guys/girls think this is something a person can either do or not do, or is it a skill that can be learnt by everyone?

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is this real? i so have to try it now!

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If you want your partner to get good at deepthroating its really very simple: While he or she is sucking you they simply need to firmly hold their left thumb inside their left hand. Like making a fist but with the thumb on the inside. It suppresses the gag reflex. (Don't forget to breathe.)
So it is a learned skill.

You're welcome. I like to be helpful.

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I think it's natural to some people but can be learned if you want to.

So this is my experience…first of all, you have to WANT to do it.---I don’t think just doing it to try to please your man is enough, because it does take time and practice.  I have a strong sense of pride in being able to do it.  For me, there is a curious sense of both dominance AND submission in the act.  

Second, once you have learned to do it, it can be VERY pleasurable,  it is an amazing feeling having a cock slide down your throat, you have no idea.  I wont say that I can orgasm just from it, but boy am I close.

Third…the mechanics…empty stomach (no fun after a full meal),  daily brush your tongue with toothbrush causing a gag 3x..this will decrease gag reflex plus you will learn that gagging is not the end of the world, eat some ice cream right before you start (that way if you do gag, it wont taste terrible), daily practice with a dildo.  If you don’t practice, this will never be fun, it will always be a chore. I actually love to practice going in and out, just entering the throat to get warmed up.  Breathing and relaxing are vital, once he is all the way in, you should be able to sit there for however long you want (not like being able to hold your breath and stay under) but relaxed…god this feels so good

Here’s some important factors…everyone’s mouth, jaw and penis are different sizes.  Size does matter, you want to find the right size for you.  I do believe anybody can deepthroat but not necessarily deepthroat everyone.  When it’s the right size, it’s great.  Personally I find the 7 inch “Mr perfect” dildo is perfect, not too big a girth, and length is good.  Too short and you’re just hitting into the throat but not getting the pleasure.  It when the penis slides past the back of the tongue that you get relaxation, similar to a butt plug sensation.

Fourth…especially to start…you need to be in control.  If he’s not willing to do that, you need to be finding a different partner or you/he have a way different sense of what is a turn-on than I do.  And as many people have observed, porn films are teaching a message about cock sluts/cum dumpsters/degradation that are not healthy or pleasant to watch

Fifth…as far as I am concerned deepthroating is as much for my pleasure as his.  And going slow feels so good.  Once I am good and turned on, honestly, then he can bang away as much as he wants…I no longer have any gag reflex at that point

Sixth…I don’t honestly know anyone who would say cum tastes great, but wouldn’t say it’s terrible either.  There is a true sense of accomplishment in having him cum in your mouth and especially down your throat and swallowing.  It’s like finishing a 10K, diving off a cliff, pushing yourself to your best

Seventh…for me…the upside down position, head down over the edge, man thrusting only works after I am seriously turned on.  Too easy to aspirate which spoils the fun.  69 works best with me on top or him standing against a wall, me seated/kneeling in front.

I hope you all have fun any way you can

As with anything, it can be both. As a bisexual man, I have driven many a guy crazy. But to me it's common sense to make a man feel the way you want to feel when you're getting a blow job. I had a guy who was relentless at sucking my cock. But he was terrible. He had good jerking skills, or we'd probably still be in bed. So, we were having a mmm threesome and I went down with him and showed him how he could improve his skills. With a little practice, he had the man's cum all in his mouth! He was so grateful, he snowballed some of it to me!

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I saw a friend take a long neck beer bottle , a full bottle, tip it up and swallow most of it and in a few seconds pulled it out and the bottle was empty. I was floored, excited and had a different kind of respect for her after that. I thought she was a good girl before that...

I've had it done to me once and it's amazing

Even more impressive the cap was still on when she started

Here is an on-topic joke (that dates me):

Q: Why did Nixon watch Deep Throat 15 times?

A: He wanted to get down Pat.

I imagine that there are some women for whom giving a deep throat blow job comes naturally, they just have the ability to find the right angle or know how to relax their throat. My wife is someone who is always willing to try things, at least for the experience. I know that, much like anal and fisting, deep throating was a skill that she worked on. I am happy to say that with practice my wife has become proficient in all three skills. In response to an earlier post I just want to say that every time I fill my wife's mouth with cum, after she finishes swallowing she moans and tells how great my cum tastes. I make sure to eat a lot of different fruits and vegetables. She may be saying it to make me feel good, but I can only go by what she says and does.

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Here is an on-topic joke (that dates me):

Q: Why did Nixon watch Deep Throat 15 times?

A: He wanted to get down Pat.

I’ll bet a lot of younger Lushies don’t get that joke.

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I’ll bet a lot of younger Lushies don’t get that joke.

You are quite right.

For my wife, it was a learned skill. After many many years together , while she was sucking me she would have a new technique. I would be shocked and ask where did she learned that. She would smirk and tell me to shut up and just enjoy. This would continue to happen over the years until one day she easily deep throated me. I would blown away. She was oblivious learning different techniques and deep throating by others and testing her new skills on me.