I personally don't have a preference.
As long as she can make me laugh and we share a bunch of things in common, ethnicity doesn't make a difference to me.
I love all women, no matter where they are from.
I have never thought about ethnicity. If the person I am with is kind and passionate about our being together I am just happy and feel wonderful.
I don't have a preference. I go for personality. Now a lot of people say they go for personality first, but I can guarantee you that most people who say that are lying. I however mean it 100%. I'd rather turn down an incredibly sexy guy who's a twat, for someone who isn't good lucking but has brains, talent, humour and a good heart. Black, white, hispanic, Asian, whatever- It doesn't matter to me...
HOWEVER. I must admit I have a soft spot for white guys, and all the guys I've ever been with have been white. But that is purely because I've never had the opportunity to be romantically involved with someone from the same ethnicity as mine (black) or an other.
I've been with many types of women of all Ethnic groups and I can't really put a finger on one over the other.
For me it's more to do with culture and nationality and how they were raised and continue to believe.
God knows, when it comes to anyone that thinks their religion, race, nationality etc is superior to another you've got the makings for trouble.
I'm also tired of people referring to themselves as XXX-American. What's wrong with being a PERSON? So what you're XXX. You looking to keep yourself segregated from others by emphasizing your ethnicity? I can see you're XXX why do you have to tell me ------- Never mind going to take this over tot eh rage cage.
Anyway it's all types of women for me, including shemales :-)
I think I've said this in another thread. I wouldn't say that there is a specific ethnicity/ies that attracts me, but there are physical characteristics that attract me that might incline me more towards some groups than others. Black/dark hair is a turn, naturally darker skin (not tanned, but a naturally dark skin tone), things like that. That still covers a lot of ground, but it does mean I find myself looking towards East Asian (Chinese, Japanese, etc.), South Asian (Indian, Persian), and Hispanics more so than blond, blue-eyed Nordic types.
Realistically, though, I've been with women from a number of ethnicities and appearances and was attracted to them all. And, as others have said, physical is only half the battle. Her personality has to have something attractive to create the personal connection.
I don't have a preference. As long as the guy treats me well, he could be any ethnicity.
I do understand your point. When it comes down to relationships, ethnicity does not matter.
But in the abstract, what might catch your eye, is a bit different. I have a strong fascination with Malaysian girls.
I was brought up that I could or should only be attracted to my own ethnicity, (my parents were very prejudice-I am embarrassed to say), therefore we did not live in an area that co-mingled and wherever I went, it was strictly one race, not even any mixed blood. I did not know different. Me and my sister never dated anyone outside our own race growing up, (no I do not think so), but luckily we did NOT ever share those same views as our family about ethnicity and to us that was irrelevant; if we were attracted or not, we saw no race, only the person. I am very glad we did not adopt our parent’s views. I would not be with the man I am today had I followed their line of action. I would not have discovered this sexy & beautiful person and a true connection in a relationship like this had I followed my society’s views either!
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