Hall Pass?

11 Apr 2019

Would you consider giving your OH a free hall pass if they had a higher sex drive than you?

11 Apr 2019

A very good question.

Not really and neither would I ask for one. IMO and I dare say others will have differing views but my view is, its just a licence to "cheat ". The problem could arise if it goes beyond the "night of passion" as emotions could be at play. This could place pressure on the core relationship .

I just think there are perhaps, "safer" alternatives to managing different sex drives such as the use of toys .

I think giving a hall pass is risky .

11 Apr 2019

I would consider it, though I'd probably want the same courtesy in return. We might have to negotiate some ground rules, though.

11 Apr 2019

He has one. Sadly, he hasn't had the opportunities to use his as much as I have mine.

12 Apr 2019

We have the same sexual drive but if his ever surpassed mine then Nope...Nope...Nope...and Noooooooooooope!!! He’s got two hands so when he’s tired using one hand he can use the other one to change it up a bit lol jerkit

13 Apr 2019

Lushly speaking yes, I have done but in RL it’s very doubtful.

13 Apr 2019

Doubtful her drive will ever exceed mine but she has a hall pass whenever she desires ...

14 Apr 2019

If he can't keep up w/ my sex drive...goodbye.

16 Apr 2019

Have a FWB & neither of us needs permission from the other. We do communicate regularly and try to avoid being rude or insensitive to each other.

17 Apr 2019

Someone said it is permission to cheat. How is that if one partner has permission to Roam New Pastures. How is that cheating.

It is only sex and I would imagine both partners have the same privileges.

Remember. even if you are a Steak and Potatoes person, going Vegetarian now and then is good for the soul as well as the relationship.