The first time Mr Jaune started to talk about sex he told me his first partner told him "You can only have sex with one person and no one else until the relationship is over."
That woman help shape the sexual habits of Mr Jaune. He couldn't have sex with anyone once he was in a relationship so great advice. Ironically she cheated on him with his best friend, a stranger and before they got together she dated his older brother.
Another thing he told me was how he slept with a much older woman who had a loose arse hole. Apparently she was a great fuck for a woman who had 5 kids. He showed me her picture she was so fugly. I said he must have been desperate.
After that he never talked about his past sexual history.
WHY would you nmot want to know of what they have done and what turned them on and curled their toes? Just good insight IMO.
Since my wife was a virgin when we married and I was previously married it is touchy subject with her. My first wife loved sex a bit too much as she whored herself out and couldn't keep either her legs or mouth shut. Divorce was a merciful end for both of us.
Carol says she only likes to discuss our history and I respect that. When boundaries are set I don't cross them.
There were a lot of guys before my husband and still a lot more after. We do not talk about the, details but he does Fuck me if I get home at a decent time like no other time.
I need to know their history, thats for sure. I don't get off on the recall though.
I think it's a bad move, I try to be vague
I love hearing about my OH's very full past! She doesn't always want to go into detail but it is a huge turn on when she does.
S/O is very well-traveled and has been with more women than I can count (500 is not an impossible number...). Occasionally he regales me with stories but they all seem to blur into one big narrative - which may suggest that I'm not too affected by his crazy past... It helps that he's honest but super tactful about his romantic/sexual history and I try to be the same (even if my backstory's minimal).
I feel safer knowing everything they've done and with whom.
There are no secrets among us.
We are all aware of the good, the bad, and the ugly in our past.
I think open hearts will ensure lasting relations by setting aside misunderstandings...
I like the way you make me feel even when I'm nowhere near...
The past is the past. My wife had a child before we married and I know that there were others, just like there was with me. We have never asked each other about past loves or past experiences.
I enjoy it. Partly because it's sometimes hot to hear about it, mostly because nothing interests me more than her, and every little detail reveals more.
I nearly died when he told me the real figure last week (even he thought it was excessive! Hence the serious lowballing, ha...). But he's a totally different guy now. I'm just grateful that he's been lucky enough to not catch anything serious.
Always a touchy subject.... but as my hubby tells me, things behind closed doors, stay behind closed doors... there is NO future in the past... today is a new day to start your life on the right paths!!!
I love to hear about her experiences from before we married and the few since we married. It took a while before she would share, but when she found out it turned me on, she has been open about almost all of her sexual experience. One or two are still too sensitive to her and she won't discuss them.
I care more about the future than I do the past.
I really get turned on when my wife tells me about her past sexual activities. It's partly because most of it was in college when she was at one school and I was at another. I only saw her once or twice a month, so she was free to date other guys. After we married, she told me that she was not only dating other guys, but fucking several of them. It would have driven me totally crazy if I had known what was going on while we were dating, but I am no longer jealous and enjoy the stories. I met all the guys, by the way.
It’s a big turn on to hear stories about past encounters. I love hearing about and learning about what has turned her on in the past. Can’t get enough. ?
I love hearing her stories.
I’m on my third sexual partner and he’s asked a couple of question. I know that he’s more experienced than I am but I’m not interested in the details of his past encounters
Partner-in-Lust / Cummunist
I have no problem telling or hearing... both turn me on.
Curiosity is one of those insatiable passions that grow by gratification.
We had a long talk before we got married and talked about our sexual history, as well as our likes and dis-likes. Because of the small circle that we traveled in there was actually some duplication of effort, which made for even better conversation. The main thing is that he knows I am bisexual and fully embraces the idea without being a horn dog about it. In his defense, I have never had a male sexual partner that was more in tune with me sexually as he was and still is. Our sharing only enhanced what was already a good sex life. Neither of us has a jealous bone in our body and we have shared our love for each other in front of our friends and that is an accountability that neither of us takes lightly.
My present husband told me he's very straight, very vanilla and very faithful. That was all I needed to know.
I haven't any problem hearing about Siri's past nor telling her mine.
We've already talked about most everything before our wedding last year,
und always tell each other how our date went when we go out with someone else occasionally.
Sometime we bring them home und share them anyway...smiles
