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How did you learn about sex.

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Heartofblue
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I found out by virtue of the fact that everyone else I knew seemed to know before I did and made fun of my ignorance.
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Back in the 60"s I was lucky enough to have 2 older women when i was young, they was good teachers. They would be call milf now days. smile
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I just kinda figured it out on my own. Sexual education in the US is a joke. The information taught in schools doesn't even have to be medically accurate in a great number of the states.

My parents unfortunately left it up to the school system up until I needed birth control in my teens because of severe menstrual complications. My mom had an in-depth discussion with me as far as how sex works and everything (by then I had figured just about everything out from my friends, movies, and books). This was because she knew that if I really wanted to do it, there wouldn't be anything she could do to stop me, and she didn't want me to fall into the pattern of thinking birth control made me sexually invincible, and I told her quite honestly that I had no interest in sex at that particular point in my life. But it was a really good talk...it just took a while, and I know it only happened because of such severe circumstances.

My parents' whole approach to sex back then is pretty hilarious to me now, because they're so open about it now. My mom calls asking me questions about something she's heard of or the safest way to try something, and my dad loves raunchy jokes, usually involving my mom. It's pretty gross.

I'd like to think that I'd be pretty open with my kids (if/when I have them) when it comes to discussing sex when the time comes. I really can't see anyone else I'd trust with that responsibility.


I think there are plenty like yourself. Finding out from friends. Sexuality is a natural curiosity for all teens. They see and feel the hormonal changes happening to them. I remember when I had the "talk" with my son. It was hilarious. He said, ewwww you and mom did that?
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i read A LOT. my library card and cosmo were my best friends in middle and high school.

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Softcore pornography and then some serious hardcore porn found in my school friend's loft........I learned a lot!
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From my roommate freshman year in college. In Korea when I was young sex was never discussed in the family. I had boyfriends in HS but it never went past hand holding or a quick kiss. Because I was more into sports and preparing for college boys were more competitors than anything to me. I never had interest in sex until my final year of HS. I wrote the whole story on Lush if you would like to read.
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learned the first time I had it, family was a very hush hush type, didn't talk about things like that...
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Quote by honeydipped
i read A LOT. my library card and cosmo were my best friends in middle and high school.


I learned the samw way, reading cosmo and books. Later saw some very interesting videos. Now, I need the real thing
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From hanging out with my older brothers girlfriends. Also from older girls from school.
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Theoretically, movies, books and magazines; practically, it was school !
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Sister and I found parent's stash of porn. We used those as a guide hehe
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I knew the basics of heterosexual sex....my older sister taught me about pleasure

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Unfortunately I cannot post that... but it was all fun and everything good smile
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It certainly was not via a chat from my parents about the 'birds and the bees'; I never had that talk.
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Erotic stories online helped, first bf too and my mom was mildly helpful with advice. I still got pregnant at 18 though
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My parents were divorced, and I think each of them expected the other to have 'the talk' with me, but neither of them did (apart from the general message that being sexual in anyway was perverted, and if girls found out that I had those kinds of thoughts, they'd be creeped out). I guess my first understandings about sex were absorbed through general culture (music, movies, books, etc.), and from other boys at school. Eventually we got sex education classes that were a more reliable source of information than what I could piece together on my own. After that came porn, and then my own experiences with my first girlfriend.

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I guess I first learned via masturbation and playing with myself. I always thought it was about the clitoris and eventually I discovered my vagina with my fingers. From there on, it was a whole new world lol
As for other sexual things, I had a lot of time to figure that out with Google and my husband, who had a long history of viewing porn.
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Other boys at first, then parent bought my brother & I The Book. Then there was a girl & then another, and another... then more boys, more girls, that person I'm still unsure of, married couples, pairs of women & men.
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From Jen.

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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Books and friends...
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Having grown up without a mom, my sexual education landed on my dad's shoulders.
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well besides the class I got in grade school , more came from my friends and messages I got from myspace
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Nothing like high school and the upper classmen
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Trial and error at first but then a few very special ladies that took the time to teach me how to be the very best I could be.
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I grew up on a horse farm! Farm girls are always the first to learn about sex.
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My very first experience was completely by accident. One day in the shower I was washing myself with a wash cloth and began getting a new, but very wonderful feeling down there. The more I washed the better it felt until the sensation spread throughout my body. I almost passed out. The day before when I wash in the same manner there was no special sensations. At this point in my life I had never given sex any thought.

My best girl friend was almost two years older. When I told her about it, she explained that I had my first orgasm. She was my first source of any info about sex. Our sleep overs got more and more frequent. She taught me how to kiss and we would fondle and suck on each other's nipples. We used cucumbers, zucchini squash, and sausage as dildoes. We did every thing but go down on each other.

A few months after my first orgasm I was in an accident, when a beer truck ran a red light and hit the motorcycle I was riding on behind my father. I lost my uterus and a couple other parts, but my cervix and ovaries were OK. I believe my ovaries have been stuck in overdrive ever since.

My mother would cringe any time sex was even mentioned. So learning anything from her was not going to happen. I have wonder how she ever had seven children, I was number five and the first girl. My father had my sister-in-law give me the "birds and bees talk." Even though we did not talk about the birds and bees, and it was not just one conversation. I was comfortable with telling her about my experences. Her and my best friend was where I got most of my info about sex.

I had four boyfriends over a 3 year period that I had sex with. Then I started dating Teach one of my high school teachers. In a little under three months I learned enough to get a PHD in human sexology. The two parts of my stories I have posted here are about the fast paced sex education I received from Teach. On the first day of a 3 day party, which turned out to be a group gang bang, I had many sexual firsts. First that involved things I would have never thought I would do. And I did them willingly, due to the excitement and rush that more than doubled the strength, intensity, and length, of my orgasms, which is still happening today.

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I grew up on a horse farm! Farm girls are always the first to learn about sex.


Hubbie grew up in the country in central Louisiana and tells me the same thing. He feels that growing up with farms and livestock all around you makes for a better well rounded education. They boarded horses, which he took care of. Then all of his mother's brothers and sisters had farms with gardens, fields of grain, and all kinds of livestock. Most of them lived on inherited land next to each other. At planting and harvest time it was a family affair.

Brandie