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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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In chat rooms, I am frequently accosted by males who quite obviously haven't read mine and expect me to be turned on and immediately cyber with them. I am sorry to say, well, not really, that I can get vey sarcastic with those ones or tease them without mercy before encouraging them to check my bio to find out why I don't want to play with them.
On the other hand, if someone has read my profile and wishes to chat within the boundaries I have set then I will chat most pleasantly with them.
I always check a profile I am engaged with, or wish to be. Apart from the primary reason of finding out what they wish to be called, which in my book is just basic manners, it usually possible to find something with which to break the ice.
There is a drawback though. having checked a profile I often forget to switch back to the person with whom I was conversing. This has led to some extreme embarrassment on my part!
I alwayslook at the proile
Yes, I always read people's profiles . . .I am a newbie on Lush, but I've had a taste of a few online chat sites. Usually I will have some interaction with the person, and then I will ask, "would it be ok with you, if I sent you a friend request?" I'm not the type who drops a "dick pic" on an unsuspecting recipient .
As a common courtesy, I would always look at a fellow Lush member's Profile before sending them a Friends request...however...

however... I make it a policy NEVER to check out somebody's Profile before approaching them in a Chat Room.
always ...people write interesting things whether their words are true or not doesn't matter
I always look at a profile. Not that you can necessarily tell, but I do know there have been those I decided not to ask to be friends based on their profile, and there have been those whose friendship requests I ignored based on their profile.
I fully agree with LaylaJune's comment on this. I've had a few friend requests and when I've looked at the profile there's been no details whatsoever. I always read profiles to look for basic comparable interests before deciding whether to accept or not.

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Yes always read a profile, this way you know a little bit about the person and a way of opening up a conversation.
I usually won't even respond to a forum post without having a look at the person's profile page.
For Friend Requests I have a good local P.I.......
Build a man a fire, and he'll be warm for a day. Set a man on fire, and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.
Sir Terry Pratchett
I think everyone has looked at my profile before adding me or just talking to me. Even scarily so where they seemed to have memorised everything on there including all my forum posts. Haha.
I know it sounds stupid, but I'll only ask to friend someone with a picture on their avatar or on their profile. If it's left as the generic red box, it seems more anonymous and gives me the perception they're not on Lush that often.

When I'm searching for like minded members, using the search options, I'll skim over those that don't have a photo or picture.
Yep, I always check the profile before accepting a friend request. So far, have only made one mistake.
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Yep, I always check the profile before accepting a friend request. So far, have only made one mistake.



Only one mistake since 2013? Impressive!
I look at a profile way before accepting a friend request.

But then I only have about five friends, so I'm obviously overthinking things.
I always look at profile before adding/accepting a person, made a few mistakes though but that's lush life lol ;)
I always check people's profiles in detail even when they are not on my friends list. I like to know who I am dealing with, and I always take what they say there and here in Forums with a grain of salt.
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I look at a profile way before accepting a friend request.

But then I only have about five friends, so I'm obviously overthinking things.


I think you are wise.
I always read the profiles of those requesting to be friends with me or those who want to chat with me
Always, otherwise what is the point.
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Always!! I wanna know who my friends are:-)
Always I would find it disrespectful not to. There are interesting profiles.
Reading the profiles is always interesting to me. If someone piques my curiosity I go right to the profile. If we share some things in common, or they have a certain genuine quality, I'll friend request. Receiving a friend request, on the other hand, doesn't require me to find anything of interest in their profile. I'm an old softie. I'll almost always accept anyone into my circle. I've not often regretted it.
Always! And then I get pissy if it's vague and incomplete.
I always look and review it well before I ask!!
I always look to get a view of who I"m asking to be friends with.
I dont send out many friends request but when I do I always look at their profile. If I receive a friend a request I rarely check out their profile unless their avatar interests me. I rarely decline a friend request. I am not as picky on here as I am on another of my favorite sites.
I always do especially before accepting a friend request or sending out the rare one. If in a chat room, I do as well before talking.
Always have done. So far, so good :-) (Holds breath and waits for sh*t storm!)
Absolutely--always a great idea to have the scouting report on a person,especially if they are truthful