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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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Always. I always check out the profile of the person above me on the question if I would have coffee or tea with them.

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Always. It pissed me off when they are too lazy to post one.
Always. It pissed me off when they are too lazy to post one.
I always read people's profile before responding to a friend request or sending one.
Always read them be for I ask them of accept their friend request
I always do
Love is the answer, love is a flower you gotta let it grow - John Lennon
I make it a habit to read the profile smile

"Yeah, we all shine on, like the moon, and the stars, and the sun." John Lennon

I always read their profile first.
Always. I try to read a story or two, (or videos or whatever they share), or at least get a feel if they are worth my getting to know.
I think I've checked out 7 users profiles since I've joined to read what they've chosen to freely share.

I do accept friend request but after a while as we don't chat I find them useless to be on friends list.
I am rather new here and I always check the profile first. It is not a contest for the most people on your friends list. If my list gets to large I have a hard time keeping up. I like to get to know each one a little bit on a personal level or at least know were in the world they are. It makes the earth seem small at times. Reading some of their stories or what stories they like tells me a lot about that person. I have a very dirty,nasty,kinky imagination and hope they do too.
I have never asked anyone to be a friend unless I have read their profile and discovered a reason to ask. There has to be some commonality.
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I haven't got much into the site yet. Enjoying the stories mainly. That said, i would likely devour their profile first. Even online, i would connect first with how her personality shines through her thoughts and feelings.
I am more interested in who a person is and what there likes are from music to what kind of kinks they enjoy. I have known and dated some very hot/sexy looking women but in the end I have to be impressed by who they are, what they stand for and whether they are trying to make a positive impact on people, the planet, their workplace and so on. So yes I read profiles!!!
I don't.

But I do like profiles that state, "If you mess w/ me or my friends I will go into bitch mode in less then 6seconds" I just can't stop laughing.

Those are laughable.
I look at everyone, some are obviously fraud, but for the most part, they seem to be legit, but with names to protect the innocent..
Not only do I read their profiles, I glance all the way down to their most recent forum posts they had left. That tells me so much about what's their interests...
I do because I am an older woman and feel uncomfortable being friends with anyone young enough to be my son or daughter or close to it. I also want to make sure we have something in common too.
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I don't.

But I do like profiles that state, "If you mess w/ me or my friends I will go into bitch mode in less then 6seconds" I just can't stop laughing.

Those are laughable.



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I look at profiles before accepting/sending a friend request. (honestly if I haven't interacted with the person before I don't ask or accept)
I enjoy reading the profiles its part of the fun
I enjoy reading the profiles its part of the fun
I always look at their profile, and picture gallery, if they have one. If I'm really interested, I'll read their forum posts also. With authors, I'll read a couple of their stories.
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I sure as hell do and hope they look at mine as well.
I always check out a profile before I send a request and before I accept one! People who don’t have anything to say on their wall just turn me off
Everytime. Not just the requests I may send but also the ones I may recieve.
For me if we don't have similar interests or there are things that are an automatic turn off for me then there's no point wasting my time or theirs.
I always read the profile and look at image gallery or photo album, if they exist. I also read their forum responses, if available. That tells me a lot about a member.
I get irritated when someone new whispers me then starts asking questions that are already answered in my profile, I f I plan on chatting with someone I always look at the profile and refresh myself about them and refer to it from time to time. Hint people.... just looking at profile pictures is Not reading their profile.
Good afternoon everyone! I read profiles before I chat with anyone. I need to be interested in there mind before there body...I will say a beautiful smile gets me all the time...giggles