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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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Yes, I actually read profile details through to the end...unless they're extremely long.

> I'm looking for things that peak my intrigue and points of common interest and connection;

> Do they desire to talk online FIRST and aren't open to blind friend requests (trying to be respectful of their desires);

> Look for things that may be outside my personal boundaries that are "No Go" for me;

> Looking to confirm that the individual is a gal or a couple (not some sissy CD'ing guy);

> If it's a gal, is she lesbian and only wants to talk with women (obvious signs like "NO GUYS" or subtle like "here for the women") - reason being is I want to respect their desires and not harangue them;

> Looking for signs of fake profiles, dead accounts, or if they have few friends and really don't want to connect;

If those things check, then it's more likely they'll accept an invitation to connect.



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ThePhantom
Active Ink Slinger
I always check the profiles and avoid the ones too lazy to submit one.
Guest
Lurker
I look at all the profiles before I ask them to be my friend or accept their request to be friends
Angie_Sinn
Active Ink Slinger
I always look but if they have long list of don't do this don't do that or I only friend people I have already chatted to then I avoid them
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bria_xo
Saucy Little Minx ♥️
It’s all part of the enjoyment of this site for me, a lot of my time on here is checking out people’s profiles. The ones that grab my interest I reach out to, sometimes I just tell people I enjoyed their profile. Many are very entertaining I appreciate people that actually put thought into them!
naughtyannie
God Empress of Lush
Of course. I wouldn't ask them without having done a bit of research.

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fuzzy1954
Whistling on my journey
If you can't take the time to read someones BIO before asking to be friends, I would say that person is only here to have a "loaded/bloated" list of friends (probably make them feel special)
Unknown User
I actually read the full profile to see if there's shared interests to connect on, if there's clear no goes like "NO GUYS!", and to learn about their background / situation / interests for things to talk about.
Mysteria27
Prolific Writer
I do....because most people just friend me and don't read my bio.

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Mysteria
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Unknown User
I do but it’s usually only an association to the words they share on here. I think their profile, forum posts, or stories open the door a crack and entice me to either shut that door or open it all the way.
Yeahme
Active Ink Slinger
If I am in a chat room, I generally have a quick glance at most profiles. If I start to chat, then I take another look to see if they have a bio, a picture or anything else that informs me. Nothing beats actually chatting to find out what a person is like but I always like to have something to go on - some topic or fact to start a conversation rather than "Hi, how are you?" smile

As for accepting friendship, I check thoroughly - including a reverse image search (Tineye is my goto app) to see if the photos they claim are of themselves are actually genuine.

As an example of this, I recently checked the pictures of someone who claimed to be 19 but one of their photos appeared for the first time in 2010......so they were either a very well developed 9 year old when the photos were taken.....or they were lying. Not a good start to a friendship.

Don't get me wrong, if someone has a picture and they say "Its not me but looks like me" then thats fine....at least they are being honest. I fully understand the need for privacy and discretion - I don't have a picture of me on my profile. But telling downright lies and misrepresenting yourself is a red flag to me.
Montana_Guy_XXX
Active Ink Slinger
Always !!!...... actually a silly question in my opinion. I would like to add something.... This was something that a friend actually brought to my attention.... There are lots of new members that need help when setting up their profile. Sometimes they are apprehensive in asking for help. I have helped a few new members and they were super thankful. I remember when I was new and I had not a clue on how to do a lot of things..... Just something to keep in mind
Bluestars
Active Ink Slinger
Always, usually wait until after we’ve chatted or chatted via the forum. Usually look at the profile before engaging in chat and after somebody has posted a few times in the forum and made me smile smile
TastingUrJuices
Active Ink Slinger
I always read before sending a request to see if have some things in common besides being on Lush.
AbbieLynn
Active Ink Slinger
I read the profile most of the time. If they take the time to fill out a nice profile then I know they are more likely real.
vbbond
Active Ink Slinger
Can't think of a time that I haven't read their profile to see if we have similar interests or something in their profile intrigues me.
bisub4her
Advanced Wordsmith
Always it is just good manners.
scottob1234
Active Ink Slinger
I just randomly send them out in hopes that they will have sex with me.
techgoddess
Tech Moddess AKA Danger Kat ;)
Always...it just makes sense. I would rather not waste anyone's time if we have nothing in common or are here for completely different reasons.

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Guest
Lurker
Yes absolutely, I always do.
Unknown User
Absolutely! And will never ask or accept unless chatted first.
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skypilot2020
Advanced Wordsmith
I always look at the profile of the people who send me requests, and of the people I send requests too. I want to make sure we have something in common.
shadowcat
Active Ink Slinger
Yes 100% of the time. I need to know we would get on