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How many of you, actually look at the PROFILE of the person you're asking to be friends with?

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we have profiles and bios here? when did that start?

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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I always read over a profile and if they are an author, I read some of their work. Most of the 'friends' I have here I try to connect with. I am opinionated so we are not always in agreement but I try to articulate my reasoning in civil discourse.

I have made many friends here and really like this community.


To what Chuckepoo said DITTO
“Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability.”

My Poems: ENJOY
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-poems/where-do-i-belong.aspx
http://www.lushstories.com/stories/love-poems/just-say-youre-mine.aspx
Always, and also the profile of the authors from the stories I read!!!
I always ckeck profiles and if the lady says no men I don't chat to them unless they start the chat and I only chat with ladys of an age closer to mine
I wouldn't ask to be friends with someone without looking at their profile. Same thing for those asking me.
I rarely send ( asking ) of friend requests. Did of 3 sends since joining of lush ( in the beginning ) but said sends of send were not accepted, and their words were not so nice. So no longer do I do of such, but .... I do read the profiles of others on here, some are quite interesting of a read .... and some are not.
If I ask to be friends with someone, I have read their profile, some of their stories and liked them, or got communication from my stories, or having interacted in the forum. Most often there has also been some mailing. I do not chat much, and find it difficult to keep in touch with friends as much as I would have wanted.
Of course--why would I want to add them if there was no basis for it?
Every time.
"Sometimes you have to believe in someone else's belief in you before the belief in yourself kicks in" ~Les Brown
I try do most times - actually enjoy reading them too smile
I'm ridiculous when it comes to friend requests. I'd much rather receive one than send one which i suppose is the reason why i don't speak to many people on this site.

But to answer your question, yes i look at the profile even if it's just a quick glance
Without exception!

We must be the 2% of lushies who do read profile or can read.
I always read a profile (except on a few rare occasions that just happen to be mistakes) because of the first few times I did without checking I got lectures.
I always check profiles before asking or accepting friends requests. Lately I reject more than I accept,
Always check first especially their orientation. do's and don'ts
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Always check first especially their orientation. do's and don'ts

Yes, I also check the orientation. I usually send a FR to any gay men. Otherwise, it doesn't bears no relevance.
Always, plus at least a few stories if there are any. I like to look at who their friends are, too.
Oops, accidental double post.
I generally do but i prefer getting to know someone before accepting or making friend requests. Some are very creative and I enjoy browsing profiles.
I do, but when I first joined I made a codswallop of it by not realising there was a messaging option as well as a friend request option.
Result - I sent a few requests (with a word or two) without prior chat, which must have made me look like some desperate serial friend collector.

Having realised the error I have since gotten other chat & requests in the right order.
I'd imagine the folk I sent requests to initially were pissed off or ignored me (and probably quite right too). Doubt I'll be bothering them again.
always
I always do because it gives me a sense of the person and it allows me to personalize my invite. Also if we have a real "fun" chat (not that boring cybersex shit), I can make them wet by using my assessment of their personality.
I have always read profiles because I hope to learn something about them.. Think it is a good idea.
I have always read profiles because I hope to learn something about them.. Think it is a good idea.
99.8% of the time
I have sent very few requests in my short time here but when I have it is because something on there profile intrigued me and I wanted to get to know the person behind what was said. If someone sends me a request I will usually accept although I do spend time looking at their profile in order to figure out why they sent a request to begin with. I also have a tendency to check the profiles of those I chat with on a regular basis to remind myself of their likes and dislikes. After all I want to be able to carry on a decent conversation.