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spku1982
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Hi everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster.

I've recently come across a site that allows you to stream yourself to other horny people out there. I suppose there are several such sites out there, but this one (Chaturbate) caught my attention for seeming to be simple to use.

I have a small exhibitionist trait and have often found myself wondering what it would be like to have some one else in the bedroom watching us have sex. This site seems like an interesting way to try it out, in a way, while avoiding the awkward moments that might arise if we don't actually like it. I've been thinking of trying it out with my girlfriend while wearing masks.

Does anyone out there have some experience with these sort of sites?
Security issues? Practical tips?

Thanks in advance!
dpw
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Quote by spku1982
Hi everyone! Long time lurker, first time poster.

I've recently come across a site that allows you to stream yourself to other horny people out there. I suppose there are several such sites out there, but this one (Chaturbate) caught my attention for seeming to be simple to use.

I have a small exhibitionist trait and have often found myself wondering what it would be like to have some one else in the bedroom watching us have sex. This site seems like an interesting way to try it out, in a way, while avoiding the awkward moments that might arise if we don't actually like it. I've been thinking of trying it out with my girlfriend while wearing masks.

Does anyone out there have some experience with these sort of sites?
Security issues? Practical tips?

Thanks in advance!

Bienvenu.
I'm only an exhibitionist if somebody is there. I don't cyber because I get frustrated.
I'm sure you'll get plenty of advice here.
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so it is a site that allows you to show yourself having sex to a bunch of people??

on a site

am I reading this right

I so get the thrill

but what if someone YOU didn't want to see you did??

can you pick who see's it

masks huh

hopefully you don't have any tats or moles or birthmarks that people can identify you by

hmmmmm

I wouldnt but then I don't like to share

but if is safe and your gf agrees and if you don't care if someone MIGHT see you that knows you

go for it

but be very careful that no one can tape you off the site

enjoy!
spku1982
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Quote by dpw

Bienvenu.
I'm only an exhibitionist if somebody is there. I don't cyber because I get frustrated.
I'm sure you'll get plenty of advice here.


Thanks smile

Quote by thesexynun
so it is a site that allows you to show yourself having sex to a bunch of people??

on a site

am I reading this right

I so get the thrill

but what if someone YOU didn't want to see you did??

can you pick who see's it

masks huh

hopefully you don't have any tats or moles or birthmarks that people can identify you by

hmmmmm

I wouldnt but then I don't like to share

but if is safe and your gf agrees and if you don't care if someone MIGHT see you that knows you

go for it

but be very careful that no one can tape you off the site

enjoy!


Well, I'm fairly sure it's possible to record the stream with the proper know how.
As for people recognising us, it isn't very likely but you never know. I wouldn't be ashamed nor would it cause me problems but it might be awkward. I have a tattoo but very few people know about it (it's hidden). I'm mostly worried about possible cyberattacks and stuff like that.

Thanks for the feedback.
dpw
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Quote by spku1982


Well, I'm fairly sure it's possible to record the stream with the proper know how.
As for people recognising us, it isn't very likely but you never know. I wouldn't be ashamed nor would it cause me problems but it might be awkward. I have a tattoo but very few people know about it (it's hidden). I'm mostly worried about possible cyberattacks and stuff like that.

Thanks for the feedback.

You're not streaming live are you because I'd really urge that you didn't.
Check on the security implications, you may have to upgrade yours.
spku1982
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Quote by dpw

You're not streaming live are you because I'd really urge that you didn't.
Check on the security implications, you may have to upgrade yours.


Well, from what I understand, it's live.
Do you think I should use a proxy or something? Tor?
dpw
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Well, from what I understand, it's live.
Do you think I should use a proxy or something? Tor?

I think you should record it, live streaming can leave you more open. I'm not saying it will but it might. Also there's less pressure to perform to a live audience and you don't have to post it if you're not happy with it.
spku1982
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Quote by dpw

I think you should record it, live streaming can leave you more open. I'm not saying it will but it might. Also there's less pressure to perform to a live audience and you don't have to post it if you're not happy with it.


Thanks for the tip
Guest
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haven't done it yet but am considering it.
BelleduJour
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I've done the one-on-one /cam thing with partners over the years but never have I've jumped online and allowed God and country to watch me get busy with or without a partner. Not my thing but more power to you if that excites you.
BikeBoy
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My lover and I have put on a few live shows via a site we used to frequent and really got a kick from seeing the response. Viewers can type comments which come across as a live feed, most were of the "c'mon dude, spray her face" style which we soon learned to ignore but some showed appreciation in a classier manner. We had fun with it, especially starting off the night and seeing the viewer count rapidly increase. Once we were finished we'd see the viewer count drop even quicker..... whoosh. It was definitely an exercise in Feed the Narcissist but keeping that aspect in perspective gave us a laugh.
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I have posted face-free pics here but not sure I'd get up the nerve for something like that. As dpw says, live streaming has some serious security and privacy implications and the ability to edit and secure a recording makes it the safer route.
Guest
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I have not been much of an exhibitionist. I love doing it in person with certain people but have not done it on the internet
Nyaeve80
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I used to go online with a programme like this, as has been said it is a real buzz seeing all the people watching you. I enjoyed it, I never had sex on cam but I did a bunch of other stuff.

BUT

And it is a big one. If you are at all good looking, if you look hot, if what you are doing is hot or weird then those images and that sequence will come back to haunt you. I saw myself in different places afterwards and have never shown my face in anything again.

Do wear masks or not show face it is such a risk.

Otherwise have fun, but don't read the comments they can kill an erection in seconds as my boyfriend found out.