Bookings are now available in the official Chapel Chatroom ($500 non-refundable).
Price includes a virtual registrar.
Matriarch
Join the best erotica focused adult social network now
Login
Lush Marriage? Yes, No, Maybe, or just ridiculous?
Active Ink Slinger
I'm feeling a bit naive...how do you attend a cyber wedding? What actually transpires? Is video involved? I can't seem to wrap my brain around the logistics of it. Will someone please enlighten me!
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Quote by Fuct
I'm feeling a bit naive...how do you attend a cyber wedding? What actually transpires? Is video involved? I can't seem to wrap my brain around the logistics of it. Will someone please enlighten me!
Someone creates a chat room. Cyber vows are exchanged. There's music...either via youtube video or a play list. There's cyber dancing, drinking, eating, and crying. Then the cyber bouquet is tossed...as is the cyber garland. And then the lovers have a private chat and consummate their cyber marriage.
"What is the quality of your intent?" - Thurgood Marshall
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Fuct
I'm feeling a bit naive...how do you attend a cyber wedding? What actually transpires? Is video involved? I can't seem to wrap my brain around the logistics of it. Will someone please enlighten me!
Good questions ...
Candy Connoisseur
Quote by theplayer
I have been invited to six Lush weddings in the last few weeks and attended two. They all had the trappings; limos, bridesmaids, music, flowers, cake, champagne....and even had the faux minister, and exchanged vows. I suppose those that are in claimed relationships are looking to make a stronger commitment. Your thoughts?
I'm not sure why you're even asking when you have already made your choice.
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Soleillalune
Good questions ...
There is soooo much to learn in lushville....I do sometimes feel like that photo, only in a somewhat less nerdy fashion (I hope)
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012
Someone creates a chat room. Cyber vows are exchanged. There's music...either via youtube video or a play list. There's cyber dancing, drinking, eating, and crying. Then the cyber bouquet is tossed...as is the cyber garland. And then the lovers have a private chat and consummate their cyber marriage.
Thank you, I am wiser this evening, thanks to you. Well...maybe not wiser, but I have more random, somewhat bizarre, knowledge.
Quote by Fuct
I'm feeling a bit naive...how do you attend a cyber wedding? What actually transpires? Is video involved? I can't seem to wrap my brain around the logistics of it. Will someone please enlighten me!
Sure. The ceremony is here in a chat room, either public or private. There is the bride and groom, of course. Bridesmaids, ushers, a minister of one's choosing, and music videos...presumably love songs, etc...It's fantasy so you can make it whatever you like. There is an exchanging of vows, (fantasy) and a receiving line after the ceremony. Then the after party. Foods from around the world, a ten tiered cake, and buckets of champagne.
It is fantasy and has no legal merit. Just another way of enhancing a Lush experience. I just asked for peoples thoughts. Thanks for yours.
Wise Ass
Would someone gain less credibility to be a prospective marriage partner if you had a past of being involved in failed Lush marriages before?
Sure it's fantasy, but marriage by nature involves SOME form of commitment doesn't it?
'Till Lush do us part!
Sure it's fantasy, but marriage by nature involves SOME form of commitment doesn't it?
'Till Lush do us part!
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker
[URL=http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]
[URL=http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]
Quote by Dancing_Doll
It's funny that on a site that's supposed to be about sex and exploration and fun, some people still go to huge lengths to be as traditional and conservative as humanly possible. Somehow it still comes down to marriage and and commitment and monogamy and rules.
Having said that - it's really no different than any other kind of role-playing, so if holding a cyber-bouquet and having a make-believe ceremony really floats your boat, go for it. But please god - no angsty barrage of wailing divorce poems when your cyber-spouse hits the 'delete account' button one day.
LOL I second that. The queue would be unbearable
Candyman
I don't see it happening. I have been married to the love and lust of my life for 30 years. Knowing her, she will outlive me.
But, for it to happen it would take a special lady. Not saying it can't happen or won't, but more than likely it won't for me.
But, for it to happen it would take a special lady. Not saying it can't happen or won't, but more than likely it won't for me.
"I expect nothing. I fear no one. I am free." Nikos Kazantzakis
Buxom Enigma
I personally think it's silly, but then again, I also don't get some of the fetishes out there either. So it doesn't make it bad, just unfathomable to me.
Would I do it? Meh, hard to say because I'm not really into the whole online-dating thing after a couple of failed relationships. My relationships all sank! LOL
Just because I don't like it, doesn't mean nobody should. If that's what floats your boat, go for it. I've been invited to a few Lush weddings, but wasn't able to attend any.
But, I will say that this thread gave me a few giggles.
Would I do it? Meh, hard to say because I'm not really into the whole online-dating thing after a couple of failed relationships. My relationships all sank! LOL
Just because I don't like it, doesn't mean nobody should. If that's what floats your boat, go for it. I've been invited to a few Lush weddings, but wasn't able to attend any.
But, I will say that this thread gave me a few giggles.
"Good writing is supposed to evoke sensation in the reader - not the fact that it is raining, but the feeling of being rained upon." -E.L. Doctorow
I was told about this conversation by a friend of mine and I look at things like this while the cyber world does have several options ppl cant help but want to feel like they are in a serious relationship whether it be cuz in rl they cant keep one or whatever I know I have met the most beautiful and loveable person on this very site and yes maybe one day we will have a cyber wedding here but who knows for right now we r taking things slow and just chillaxing with one another we spend every chance we get talking getting to know one another and every night is date night for us cuz we do live so far apart but we still love each other and want to b with one another and if we feel a cyber wedding is needed then so be it its for us and our friends.
with that being said I respect everyones opinion cuz lets face it an opinion is like an asshole everyone has one some say it ridiculous some don't and as far as the divorce rate and things like that well all I can say is shit happens not much can b done about it. thank u for listening to my opinion even if it stinks lmao
with that being said I respect everyones opinion cuz lets face it an opinion is like an asshole everyone has one some say it ridiculous some don't and as far as the divorce rate and things like that well all I can say is shit happens not much can b done about it. thank u for listening to my opinion even if it stinks lmao
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by SouthernWolf
I was told about this conversation by a friend of mine and I look at things like this while the cyber world does have several options ppl cant help but want to feel like they are in a serious relationship whether it be cuz in rl they cant keep one or whatever I know I have met the most beautiful and loveable person on this very site and yes maybe one day we will have a cyber wedding here but who knows for right now we r taking things slow and just chillaxing with one another we spend every chance we get talking getting to know one another and every night is date night for us cuz we do live so far apart but we still love each other and want to b with one another and if we feel a cyber wedding is needed then so be it its for us and our friends.
with that being said I respect everyones opinion cuz lets face it an opinion is like an asshole everyone has one some say it ridiculous some don't and as far as the divorce rate and things like that well all I can say is shit happens not much can b done about it. thank u for listening to my opinion even if it stinks lmao
This was a really nice post but tinged with sadness about the distance. Good luck, and nobody's laughing.
The Linebacker
You can pick up a your cyber wedding gift, a cyber set of cyber monogrammed towels from me at cyber Bed Bath & Beyond. I hope they get you cyber dry after you take a cyber shower.
Cyber later cyber gator!
Cyber later cyber gator!
Active Ink Slinger
Has anyone tried inviting Manti Te'o to one of these weddings?
Active Ink Slinger
Ive been invited to at least three weddings here, failed to attend due to time difference. More importantly I don't know them well enough. Im not bothered it this feels right for you then go for it. It certainly wont be happening for me.
The Linebacker
Quote by MrNiceguy888
Has anyone tried inviting Manti Te'o to one of these weddings?
Manti Te'o aspires to be a successful cyber wedding crasher.
Rookie Scribe
Stupidist freaking thing ever. What's next? Fake Lush kids? Insipid.
![http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]](https://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]){kind=link}
Constant Gardener
Quote by Guest
I wasn't seeking approval. I simply asked what other's thought about Lush fantasy weddings. My decision has nothing to do with the results of my poll. Thanks for your thought.
ThePlayer & his avatar - R.I.P. again.
Any wagers on how soon he comes back to Lush?
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
Wise Ass
Quote by WellMadeMale
ThePlayer & his avatar - R.I.P. again.
Any wagers on how soon he comes back to Lush?
Winner gets a Lush Gold membership?
The night that changed my life, a four part series of a married man lusting after his co-worker
[URL=http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]
[URL=http://www.lushstories.com/stories/reluctance/the-night-that-changed-my-life-1.aspx][IMG]http://i.imgur.com/WPPsy.jpg[/IMG][/URL]
Sarcastic Coffee Aficionado
Quote by WellMadeMale
ThePlayer & his avatar - R.I.P. again.
Any wagers on how soon he comes back to Lush?
CurlyFries
Quote by Dudealicious
Winner gets a Lush Gold membership?
I'll take 01/02/14 for the Gold!!