Newly single with body confidence issues - any tips?

I’ve recently separated from my husband and want to get back out there. Before I was married, I enjoyed a pretty healthy sex life but that was in my twenties and I had a much slimmer figure. Any suggestions for a larger lady in her forties to get a bit of body confidence back so I can get my mojo working again?

Find guys who appreciate what you look like now. I like a pretty, round face and big boobs; I'm not naturally attracted to a big ass on its own, but if it's proportional to the boobs, I'm into it. And I make sure to run my nads (whoops, typo, I swear!) hands along her big belly while we're messing around so she knows she doesn't have to be self-conscious about it.

I have a bit of a belly myself, and I don't go looking for women with flat stomachs who are into fitness. Lifestyle mismatch.