I think if I was looking for "relief sex", I could enjoy it. But I prefer a partner I know and can share more than a quickie fuck with so I can't see myself making a habit of it.
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I’m married, and of course that’s somewhat of a different relationship than one that is just for pure physical and emotional fun. Marriage aside, I don’t see ANY reason to keep any other around for the long haul. There are just way way too many guys and too many experiences waiting out there to otherwise limit oneself. Of course not everyone is going to be deter than the one before, but such is everything in life. Variety surely is the spice of life!
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There seems to be at least categories of One Night Stands--- (1) Those that are unexpected; i.e., love at first sight with a total stranger and that love leads to a one-time romp in the sack and (2) those where one party or the other were expecting a return engagement that never happens for whatever reason. So here is my reply to this question---
In regards to (1). No. I've never had sex just for the sake of sex. I need an emotional attachment as well as a physical desire. Fucking just for the sake of fucking wouldn't do it for me. I need the whole package.
(2) I had a boyfriend (and I use that term reluctantly here) in college. We knew each other for over a year before we started dating and it was after a couple of months of dating that I finally slept with him. Mind you, I was young (19) and very naive at the time (having been raised in a small southern town and with very conservative values, especially when it came to sex). I thought we had something going on and I definitely wanted to share my body with him. However, after bedding me, I never went on another date with him. Not from the lack of trying, but he would have every excuse in the world. I learned that he was a trophy hunter. For him, it was the thrill of the chase and for lack of a better term, "the kill." After getting a reluctant girl into bed, he had achieved his goal of "conquest" and moved on. He was pretty suave and knew how to act and what to say around girls to get them to melt. I as extremely hurt emotionally and felt betrayed over this and it took me a while to get over it. To this date, he is the ONLY ex-boy friend that I've NOT kept in touch with and with whom I'm NOT still friends. It was a one-night stand, but not by my choice and one I still regret bitterly.
So sorry, you deserved better!
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I’m married, and of course that’s somewhat of a different relationship than one that is just for pure physical and emotional fun. Marriage aside, I don’t see ANY reason to keep any other around for the long haul. There are just way way too many guys and too many experiences waiting out there to otherwise limit oneself. Of course not everyone is going to be deter than the one before, but such is everything in life. Variety surely is the spice of life!
Spice, I will be your Cinnamon Spice, if you would like! Always. Paprika!
