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Sexual compatibility rate?

100% - I'm compatible with everybody!
80% - I'm easily satisfied
60% - I'm rather selective
40% - I'm hard to please or have rare fetishes
20% - You'd better behave yourself
0% - Don't come near me!
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SereneProdigy
Cryptic Vigilante


We often hear about sexual compatibility, but I wondered how often people are left unsatisfied with their partners.

What's your rate of sexual compatibility?

Does sexual incompatibility only happen with a few persons who don't know how to treat you? Are you selective or hard to please? Do you have weird fetishes and have a hard time finding a match?

I'd be surprised to see if there's a difference between men and women regarding this subject.

Personally, I'd say that the girls I end up fucking with almost always have a personality that's compatible with mine, and therefore we're also often sexually compatible. I'm really not that hard to please either, and can still be quite satisfied with an energetic fucking session without much fetishes involved (ie. simply fucking her vagina passionately). I like to add a few kinky practices in long-term relationships though, for the sake of variety.

I chose 80% in the poll, according to my past experiences in the last few years. If I was to fuck with random girls around my age (which I did a bit more in my early 20s), my compatibility rate would probably be around 40%, mainly due to a lack of emotional connection or physical attraction.

Thanks for sharing!
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In my current relationship I would say we are 99-100% compatible.

SELECTIVE

There is "Sexual" compatibility and then there is REALLY compatibile on other levels, deeper levels, and areas that may or may not figure in more prodominantly. I know you are speaking just general. Was I satisfied in past things? Truthfully? No. Had I given up hope? No. Deep compatibility is different than someone easy to please depending on what they want. I came to be of the mind to rather hold out for quality rather than to accept less and have quanity. I was tired of the problems and heartache (and ultimately "dissatifaction" it would bring.) Am I hard to please? 'or is it just me? 'or that I want something "different"? (You also mentioned "fetishes" or "rare fetishes.")... .

To be blunt, I think a good "fuck" or REALLY good is hard to find, even if someone could go to a service... or easily get it anywhere or from any number of friends, etc. "Good" is a quality defined by that individual and what someone else's idea of "good" may be might not be my idea. I am friends with many varied people, in a non-sexual way, and the range is wide of backgrounds and ages and yet I am super 'selective' on who I would allow into inner sanctum, my bodouir, me, or my private most intimate life.

I guess, I am much more selective than anyone I know (?) -about some things.

(I won't say one gender is MORE "selective" than the other, as we all have our precepts and draws, and it also depends on the perspn). I voted 60% by your poll chart, yet I would probably be the high-end 60, maybe more than 60. I have been told I am sexually compatible over & over but (what does that even mean?) this is by the standards I have seen and met... personally. My own standards are a bit different, Therefore it really takes someone special for me not just to fill my desires, and meet those needs. I am selective... not high maintenance, not hard to please but unable to quantify in one word exactly what compatibilty means, even sexually, it would ne more like a scale from 1-10. I like to shoot for "off the chart!" -'not just a very nice, well-enough, a good vanilla five. I have not usually done things in ways other people I know have, so I would say that my concepts and ideals differ greatly than most I have met. (I know that sometimes this has made things very difficult, but it was a choice.)

I think it takes someone VERY special to be compatible with me on all levels or on many of my different levels...and I am very happy that I met someone who instantly clicked and things continued to easily and naturally flow in compatibility there. It seemed to work just as I always hoped it would with the right person - if I found that just right person, and if they even existed.

I have had compatibilty- but then it really did not end up being enough (for me) in and of itself, no.

Nothing may ever be perfect, but I usually am not the type of person to settle, (though I have before and regretted it). I now wonder how compatible were those relationships really? (Especially compared to today), it takes more than that very important sexual compatibility. That may be the easy part! (or I think that is pretty easy) 'I just wanted more. It may sound greedy or ungrateful but I knew in my heart that is what i really needed and I hoped and wanted.
??? So~ I do not know. I just know I have found that compatibility I lacked and I know it feels good! I AM thankful.